[tay'smama]

Hey guys...I really need to vent...I am so angry and hurt at DH. He was too "tired" to bd last night and the night before. I feel like it's over (this cycle), my opks yesterday and today were negative and today I had a temp spike so I think I must have ovulated Yesterday or the day before. We bd'd on wed but I think that's too far away. I feel like if I o'd on Thurs or Friday we should have bd'd on those days. I know he was tired he actually fell asleep on the couch at like 7 then I tried to wake him up at 8:30 to bd but he just wanted to go to bed. I told him I thought it was our last chance for this cycle but he really didn't seem to care. I said you know all you have to do is bd with me which you obviously like to do and you can't do that. I am doing everything to try and get us pregnant I took 2 different medications, I suffered the s/e's...breakouts and hotflashes, I temp and chart and opk everyday, I have been taking folic acid for I don't even know how long anymore, I drink lots of water, I cut out caffiene. I really think we blew it for this month. He is still sleeping and I am glad cause I really don't even want to look at him right now. I know he wants another baby so I don't know what is going on. I think I am more hurt than anything. Thank you guys for listening (reading).

[MountainMomma]

I'm sorry you are having a rough time today. I've had cycles like that too. You aren't completely out though hun! Sperm can live for 3 - 5 days in good conditions. Yes, 2 or 3 days is more likely, but up to 5 days does happen. I hope you get your BFP this cycle!




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