[MountainMomma]

Christmas is approaching. What is the one thing you are wishing for this year more than anything? (BFP's don't count because we all want those!)

[Vicki...]

might sound crazy but I am wishing for my disability income to get approved so we an finally catch up on everything, we are used to having two incomes.

[tay'smama]

We are not getting each other gifts this year just stocking stuff. I really hope we can make tayla have an amazing christmas! I also wish we didn't have to run around so much and enjoy the holidays more!

[SavaAngel]

Support from my family to have another baby.

The fact that other people getting pregnant (seemingly so much easier than me) is REALLY bothering me.

[tay'smama]

Support from my family to have another baby.

The fact that other people getting pregnant (seemingly so much easier than me) is REALLY bothering me.[/b]

Oh hun, I am so sorry. We support you completely, I know it's not the same as family but once you get to know us it really helps alot! Steph and Vicki have been amazing, I am really lucky to have found jm and them! I know what you mean about other people getting pg...ugh.

[cazza]

for dh to get a new job that pays him regulary! (His boss at the moment is bad at paying us ontime which really sucks)

[MountainMomma]

Support from my family.....period! On any issue! DH's family is great, and my Dad was always so supportive of me. My mother hates me though. She never wanted me (she told me this) and only had me because she felt obligated to do it. Nice huh? My siblings.....my sister is a conceited, self centered, drama queen who hates me and honestly, I just can't handle her constant soap opera type life anymore. And my brother, bless his heart is a 17 year old kid who just became a Daddy and is supporting a family of his own, so he doesn't really have time to be bothered for even a simple phone conversation most of the time.

I never get to talk to the rest of my family, and I haven't seen anyone since my Dad's funeral. They are all pretty materialistic people, and they don't understand how I could ever be happy living in rural Iowa with a man who isn't wealthy. They don't understand that I don't have to be pampered all the time and constantly going to concerts and out to fancy dinners and such, so they would rather forget I exist. Sad but true.

I'm just really thankful that I married into such a wonderful family that has all the same values and priorities that I do. I feel so much closer to his family than I ever felt to mine (with the exception of my Dad).

[SavaAngel]

I married into a great family too - they just think AJ should be 3 before we start trying and that isn't what we want. So I can't talk to any of them about what is going on. I even went to my OB secretly (didn't tell my MIL about it, DH met me at my appt to watch AJ). She still doesn't know to this day.

My mother on the other hand has been asking when we were going to have another before AJ even turned a year old. She and I get along better at this distance than we did in the same town (she is in rural New York and I am in SE Texas). I have all older sisters (I wasn't planned - my youngest sister is 9 years older than me) who are all done having kids and really don't care to hear about my TTC woes.