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January 30th, 2009, 08:12 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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April~ My step sister is due (and I just found out today.)
August ~ My SIL is due
October ~ my sister is very potentially due (not sure if she is pregnant or not)
And my brother and his GF...who just had a baby in September.....are trying for a October/November baby. Oh....and did I mention that they got pregnant with their first on the first cycle.If my sister is in deed pregnant, that will bring us to a total of 7 (and 8 if my brother and his GF get pregnant right away) nieces and nephews....all conceived since we started trying 3 years ago. And we only have 7 brothers and sisters between the two of us!
Can I just disappear now?
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January 30th, 2009, 10:14 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Funny about the April edd.
I just found my littlest sister is due in April today!..The kicker is she lost custody to the other 2 births dads of her 3 other kids..New daddy, new baby..sigh..
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January 31st, 2009, 05:10 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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That totally sucks!!!
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January 31st, 2009, 06:58 AM
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Teddy's Mom
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I just found my littlest sister is due in April today!..The kicker is she lost custody to the other 2 births dads of her 3 other kids..New daddy, new baby..sigh..[/b]
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That's funny you say that, it reminds me of one of Corey's cousins. She has a total of 6 kids and only has custody of 2. I swear she has a kid with ever guy she slept with. One is with her parents and the other 3 are with their birth fathers. She doesn't work at all and I don't think her boyfriend does either. Not too many in Corey's family like her anymore though, she lost custody of two of her children because her one daughter said that mom's boyfriend touched her (she was I think 4 or 5) and dear Mommy decided to believe her boyfriend instead and let him stay. The rest of the family got ticked off and the girl's father found out, took her to court and got full custody of the girl and his son. Corey's uncles and male cousins also told his cousin if she ever brings her boyfriend around to family get gatherings he'll wish he hadn't come. Want to know her response to the court taking her kids away? She'll just have more kids! 
Why is it people like that reproduce like rabbits and girls like us have so much trouble? 
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January 31st, 2009, 08:21 AM
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It's really frustrating. Like with my step-sister. She is living at home.....pregnant by a married man. (His wife knows though....they ....take turns I guess?!?) She's 19. She doesn't have a job. it's going to be my mom and my step-dad who end up raising this kid. And to be honest....my mom didn't do that great with her last one. That's why he's 17 living in another state with a 25 year old woman, one baby already and trying for another!
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January 31st, 2009, 08:36 AM
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((HUGS)) Stephanie
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January 31st, 2009, 08:55 AM
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Why is it people like that reproduce like rabbits and girls like us have so much trouble? [/b]
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I COMPLETELY understand & have asked that quesiton many times!!!
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She is living at home.....pregnant by a married man. (His wife knows though....they ....take turns I guess?!?)[/b]
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WHAT!?  I mean seriously... what is with people today.
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January 31st, 2009, 09:42 AM
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Why is it people like that reproduce like rabbits and girls like us have so much trouble? [/b]
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I COMPLETELY understand & have asked that quesiton many times!!!
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She is living at home.....pregnant by a married man. (His wife knows though....they ....take turns I guess?!?)[/b]
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WHAT!? I mean seriously... what is with people today.
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Add another level of weird too it (hope this doesn't offend anyone), but she is 19, the wife is 37 and the husband is early 40's. I mean...first of all...taking turns is weird enough, but why would she want to be with someone who could quite literally be her parents?!?
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January 31st, 2009, 05:26 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am speachless Steph!!
Thats insane on so many levels and no offense taken My dh is 44 LMBO!!
I would be very upset with my teen DD if she wanted to get pg with a man as old as her dad.
The whole shareing is wrong on sooo many levels I cant imagine your poor folks stress laod right now.
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~IRENE~ MOM TO 8 KIDDOES! DS 18, DD 16, DD 14, DD 8, DS 6, DD 4, DS 3 and DS 1
Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
17W "Angel"
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January 31st, 2009, 05:31 PM
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Teddy's Mom
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The whole "sharing" thing is just wrong to me. I don't and won't share my husband.
And the fact she's having a baby with someone old enough to be her dad grosses me out a little. People are probably going to ask that guy if he's the baby's grandfather. At least your brother's GF isn't old enough to be his mother!
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January 31st, 2009, 05:33 PM
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Super Mommy
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awww hugs steph! I would be very ticked off too.
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February 1st, 2009, 08:11 AM
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I would be irritated also, I am sick of seeing how easy it is for people who don't even want or need kids and how difficult it is for us girls who want more children and love them with all our hearts.
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