[MountainMomma]

Does anyone else's DH constantly change his mind about what he does or does not want to do as far as TTC?

Matt is driving me insane! He told me he didn't want to do IVF and I understood that. When he decided that he didn't want to do IUI I respected his decision. We decided to start looking into adoption and I was getting very excited about that prospect. Now he wants to try a few rounds of IUI and then probably even move onto IVF before pursuing adoption (which we will pursue at some point regardless). It is sooo frustrating. I guess for now we are NTNP until January and then if we haven't gotten a surprise by then we are going to start IUI with Clomid for a few cycles and then a cycle or two of IUI injectibles before moving on to IVF.

I swear. I wish he would make up his mind! lol Please tell me I'm not the only one that has to deal with this.

[~InHisHands~]

I can see how that would get annoying! DH never went back & forth but maybe that's b/c we never actually made it to the RE stage of things.

[Vicki...]

It took some talking to get dh on board with adoption also, but he never worried over much about fertility treatments, was just insistent that we not ever even consider ivf which sucked, the reason he probably didn't go back and forth though is because he would have been afraid to make me that angry and trigger my phycho b switch, I can be mean and really was when it came to ttc. Steph I hope he will change his mind and reconsider adoption sooner, ((((hugs)))) I know he has gave in before ( i think that was the kitty decision) so maybe he will this time, let him know how important the decision is to you.

[stefler]

Not so much back and forth, but he seems to be more willing to 'give up' on the whole process than I am.....