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Does having other kid/s make it easier or harder for you?


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July 12th, 2009, 10:06 AM
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Does knowing you have another little one make ttc a little easier or more frustrating?

I know that when we tried to have Jeremy we tried for a very long time and I got very depressed about it. I thought I would never have kids and said back then if that was all God blessed me with I would be happy. So, I think for me having my kids helps. Of course, I probably have more kids than the rest of you gals. I think it is just not the same for me because of that. I do get depressed but I have so much to be grateful for.
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July 12th, 2009, 11:01 AM
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I'm not sure... I am very blessed with Austin but now that it has been so hard to have another I realize just how much I took Austin's childhood for granted & I see all those things I did wrong so I think it is harder in that I want to do it right this time around yet can't seem to get the chance to do it right this time.

Austin is practically grown & I just really want a little one.

I can say that when we ARE blessed I won't take him/her for granted I like I did with Austin.
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July 12th, 2009, 11:15 AM
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Hi girls. We TTC Nolan for 21 months with one loss; I was incredibly depressed until I finally got pg with him. I prayed for one child, and that's what I got. When TTC#2, the depression wasn't there as acutely; I was sad that I couldn't give him a sibling, but I was just so happy to be able to parent one child-I knew how blessed I was. Now that my house and heart are full, I still sorta long for another bio child, perhaps in two years we might start TTC again-time isn't on my side anymore, so it looks like I've run out of miracles, but this will be fine for now
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July 12th, 2009, 05:46 PM
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A little of both. My greatest desire for another child is for Tayla to have a sibling to have family. I know we are beyond blessed to have her she is our lil miracle.
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