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October 21st, 2009, 02:49 AM
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How do you plan to tell DH/SO when you get you BFP?
How do you plan to tell your parents about your BFP?
How do you plan to tell his parents about your BFP?
When do you plan on telling parents about your BFP?
When do you plan on telling others about your BFP?
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October 21st, 2009, 08:30 AM
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How do you plan to tell DH when you get you BFP? I'm sure he'll be up watching the test change with me!
How do you plan to tell your parents about your BFP? Actually for my mom & sis... I plan to wrap the test up as a present & when I see them Sat to pick Austin up (he's spending a few days with them) I'm going to give them a present & watch Mama open it up!
How do you plan to tell his parents about your BFP? No clue... probably on the phone like last time. The live out of state so it's kinda difficult to tell them any other way unless... we sent them a present too!
When do you plan on telling parents about your BFP? Immediately
When do you plan on telling others about your BFP? JM - Immediately, IRL close friends - Imediately, Others - probably when I hit the 2nd trimester.
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October 21st, 2009, 10:30 AM
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How do you plan to tell DH/SO when you get you BFP? Well I usually end up squealing it on the phone, but something creative would be cool
How do you plan to tell your parents about your BFP?
I don't know, I will probably go over and tell them. Mom is never very happy because of my history of bleeding.
How do you plan to tell his parents about your BFP?
His parents are deceased
When do you plan on telling parents about your BFP?
Just going and telling, wont be anything special
When do you plan on telling others about your BFP?
I don't know, sometimes I think I should wait until we know its going to stick, other times I think that we should tell because then others can pray for us. So its kinda hard to decide.
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October 21st, 2009, 10:47 AM
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How do you plan to tell DH/SO when you get you BFP? I am going to tell him that dessert is in the oven and that he should go look at it. When he opens the door I am going to have a paper that says "I've got a bun in the oven!" and then I'll give him the test.
How do you plan to tell your parents about your BFP? Probably just call mom.
How do you plan to tell his parents about your BFP? Wrap up a copy of our ultrasound picture in a frame saying "Hi Grandma & Grandpa! See you in July! (or whenever)
When do you plan on telling parents about your BFP? After we see the heartbeat.
When do you plan on telling others about your BFP?
JM - immediately. Probably even before Matt! lol Others - probably after I tell our parents.
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October 21st, 2009, 11:37 AM
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I'm not sure about DH. The rest of them will find out via phone and e-mail like last time. We're not close enough in terms of distance to really do anything special and gatherings only occur once a year typically so unless it fell just right we wouldn't have the opportunity for anything that would be worth it when we can't see their reactions.
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October 21st, 2009, 01:43 PM
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How do you plan to tell DH/SO when you get you BFP?..i will probably buy Gracie a "I'm going to be the big sister t-shirt.. or maybe buy a lot of pink and blue balloons... or i might just come screaming from the bathroom.. LOL
How do you plan to tell your parents about your BFP? I have this all planned out.. I will have a shirt made saying.. I have a secret (on the front of the shirt) and I'm going to be a big sister (on the back) and have her walk in to my parents house with it on!
How do you plan to tell his parents about your BFP? Same way as above
When do you plan on telling parents about your BFP? I will tell them probably after we hear the babies HB.. and have our set due date..
When do you plan on telling others about your BFP? same time as above.. once my parents know I will tell our friends..but my friends on JM first.. only.. cuz once i get my BFP my JM friends will know first
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October 21st, 2009, 04:58 PM
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How do you plan to tell DH/SO when you get you BFP? I have this idea. I feel like I am constantly posting this bc it comes up on AIP a lot. I want to make a moo cake and mini moo cupcakes. I will probably label them with my kids name an make the last cupcake called mini moo. Hopefully dh will get it.

How do you plan to tell your parents about your BFP? I will probably just call them when I am ready. My dad will be happy for us.

How do you plan to tell his parents about your BFP? Send an announcement in the mail. Not up to dealing with the lack of congrats and enthusiasm. May do the same for my mom. Her attitude is similar.

When do you plan on telling parents about your BFP?

Dad - maybe right away maybe after good ultrasound. Mom -probably in first trimester. Dh's mom - who the heck knows. Last time I was 32 weeks before we told them.

When do you plan on telling others about your BFP? Probably when I am out of the first trimester. Maybe sooner.
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October 21st, 2009, 08:09 PM
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How do you plan to tell DH/SO when you get you BFP? Depends on if he is at work yet or not. If he was home - I would run to him immediately and show him the test. If he is at work I would either send him a picture text or drive the 20 mins to his office to show him the test.
How do you plan to tell your parents about your BFP?
Picture in the mail (snail mail) probably.
How do you plan to tell his parents about your BFP?
In person since they live 20 minutes from us and we see them weekly.
When do you plan on telling parents about your BFP?
I don't know - probably fairly early on! Especially if I am sick - I will need MIL to help me out with AJ probably.
When do you plan on telling others about your BFP?
Probably right away - at this point I am not sure I can wait.
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