[Mommy2Dakota]

So, just saw the doc about my prog level being 46 and told her that my LP was still only 9. But they just don't get it! Like the other doctors she says that a luteal phase under 10 doesn't mean I can't get pregnant..or isn't a problem.
She says that as I got pregs twice with my husband (once my daughter, the other the mc 2yrs ago) that was all good signs.

But I cannot understand why I haven't caught an egg in two whole years if thats the case?

She said she would refer me to a fertility clinic though - if only to get an expert opinion - but not until hubby has a sperm test! She said when I call her with his results then she'll put us forward.

So its in his hands to move us forward. He's already making excuses He just said 'well, we'll b'd loads and that this cycle first' I said 'huh? Whats the point? Its not gonna happen now if it hasn't the past two years! We've HAD cycles when we've dtd everyday or 2 days!'

Grrr.

So I am stuck until he makes a decision.

I am so low (was anyways - I even dyed my hair black Tuesday to reflect how I feel inside) I just can't seem to care about anything.

[MarieJ]

I'm so sorry that your dh isn't on board as much as he could be-my dh was nervous about his first SA, he was secretly worried that he was the problem-but you won't know until he decides he's ready to do this. ((hugs))

[Mommy2Dakota]

Thats definitely part of it. Well, the only reason (besides the actual embarrassment). He is defo worried that his smoking and drinking has effected him and will mean he has to give those things up!

[MamaAnna]

My DH was the same way. My OB gave me Clomid to try, but only for 3 cycles and then we'd have to stop and she couldn't do an RE referral until he had an SA done. We were very fortunate that the Clomid worked because he came up with many excuses including accidentally throwing away the prescription and cup.

[~InHisHands~]