[OurSweetLabs]

Do you share with people about it ?

[SavaAngel]

Close friends who ask. But I don't go around announcing it.

[wishfulgal]

Both DH's and my immediate family know the whole situation (as in DH's MFI, that he had surgery, that we may never have more biological children, that we are considering adoption), as well as a handful of close friends. I've hinted to several other friends that it's not that we don't want another one, it just isn't working out. I'm so tired of people asking, that I will just come out and tell them if they pry. Besides, anyone who knows DH and I at all knows that we wanted a big family and I'm sure they are wondering anyway, since they all expected me to have announced my pregnancy or already have #2 by now.

[MamaAnna]

Only some people know. I don't spread it around.

[OurSweetLabs]

The only people that really know about it for us are the Ladies of JM. My Mom knows that I have been trying for a long time, but she figures it will happen some time.

[MountainMomma]

Many people have asked, and I have always been very open about it, but it's like no one actually HEAR what we say because the same people are back to saying again "Are you guys EVER going to get around to having a baby?" I have some choice words I would like to use, but generally I just bite my tounge and now say "Not until after I graduate. I'm on birth control to ensure it doesn't happen during school."