[trying41more]

af was due on the 9th (since it has been on the dot the last few months) and af is not here.. i have been so tired.. and now feeling like i have the sniffles.. and spells of nausea here and there.. some with headaches.. now I'm confused I think its all from af getting ready to show up.. but I don't know what to think.. I hate when af is late.. and I'm not pregnant.. its like a tease.. I mean I am so tired I took a nap and still feeling tired.. like I could go back to sleep right now and sleep until morning.. i do feel like af is coming.. not cramping much.. but i just think at any day she will show up.. what do you girls think.. how long should i wait for her to show up? she's only 2 days late..

[MountainMomma]

Are you kidding me?!? I would have tested a dozen times already! lol

With that said.... it really does suck when our bodies make us think that we are pregnant even if we aren't. I was convinced this past cycle that I was. I mean..... I was so sure! I held off on testing until after I had what I thought was IB. The next day I tested and thought I might have seen something, but no...... it wasn't even IB. AF showed up early.

[trying41more]

i don't like testing.. unless if af is away for longer then a week.. to many bfn's.. they depress me.. but it does suck when your body/mind plays tricks on you like that..

oh.. and i would like to add.. my cycles have been weird for a while.. maybe i will give it til sunday then test maybe once.if she doesn't show up..

[MountainMomma]

You have way more strength and patience than I do. Make sure you keep us posted.

[OurSweetLabs]

I would have already tested by now, lol

I hope that your boby is not just playing tricks on you and this is really your turn.

[trying41more]

shoot.. i wish this would be it.. i will keep y'all posted

[trying41more]

ok well update. i did a test.. just to see what happen.. and it was neg. but to be honest i'm glad we were not trying.. since we put it all on hold until james got a job.. and i was able to get on insurance before getting back to ttc.. dont get me wrong i would have been thrilled.. but since we only dtd once last month.. and grace and i left town during my O time anyway.. anyways.. theres my update.. i guess having a small cold (and having the heat on) is whats just causing me to be so tired.. and lite headed at times.. however.. i did check when i would have been due if i were pregnant.. my EDD would have been on james' 30th birthday.. Sept. 14th.. but oh well.. i just hope once we are getting back to our baby making.. that it will happen asap..

[OurSweetLabs]

I'm glad that your test turned out the way that you need for now.

[trying41more]

well not that i wouldn't have been thrilled if it turned out positive.. i just rather be on medical coverage before getting pregnant..however.. if we got pregnant (not trying) before hand we will work it out