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That I am filing for a legal seperation from my DH and will be moving into a brand new house with a male roommate. I think it will be best with everything going on that I live on my own and sort out my issues and truly think about whether or not I really want a divorce. I won't be dating for a while, as my heart is still shattered into a million pieces. I think once I get over the intial hurt & anger and start to work thru things, that I might explore other relationships with men closer to my own age.
It's just so hard to breathe sometimes. Like my heart is literally breaking in two. I've only felt pain like this once before and that was when I lost my son. Yesterday after calling a few attornies and getting no where, it hit me like a ton of bricks. My whole world came crashing down around me and I realized 'omg.. this is really happening' and I lost it. I fell into the bedroom floor into a hysterical pile of mush. I couldn't breathe.. I was crying uncontrollably, and could barely dial my sister's cell phone number. I am not the suicidal type but at that moment when I called her all I could think about was taking a whole bottle of tylenol pm to go to sleep.. to make my heart stop hurting.. to never wake-up. It took her 15 mins to calm me down and when she did she talked some sense into me. It was a fleeting thought, but I tell you it sounded better than anything else for a split moment.
Thank GOD for you ladies, my friends and family. I don't think I would be here right now without each and everyone of you! Jen (CAMommy2B) sent me a gorgeous bouquet of flowers and her note attached said 'Tracey - Keep your chin up, you're going to be fine!! I know this is hard but you don't have to go through it alone!! I'm here if you need anything!! Love You, Jen' -- tears streamed down my cheeks, and my already swollen eyes stung, but my heart felt a little less damaged. Right now as I sit here writing this the tears are flowing.. but not out of sadness.. but out of sheer appreciation for genuine friendship. The simple fact that someone whom I have high regards & consider a best friend that I've never met face to face reached out over 3,000 miles to try to put a smile on my face. How do you repay that kind of friendship?? Jen -- if you see this - THANK YOU, between you, Sharon & Casey you have been my saving grace thru all of this mess!!!
OK, sorry.. got a little soagy here but this message is meant for everyone -- thank you for your support & kind words. You've been a tremendous help. ((((BIG HUGS))))
GOD, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference ~ Amen.
OMG. I will definately keep you in my prayers. We're always here for you if you need anything. Everything will work out for the best when this is all over, just hang in there. Try to stay around your friends and family -- and keep busy so you can keep your mind off of it as much as possible. I'm so sorry you are going through this and I wish the best for you. We're here for you...
Oh my goodness. What a difficult and heartbreaking thing to be going through. I wish you all the best and we are always here for you. Please don't think that you have to leave the board even if a divorce comes through. We are always here. Please keep us updated on how you are doing.
I'm sorry you are going through this!! I'm sure you'll make it through just fine, even though right now its hard.
I wanted to say that some states don't have a legal seperations, here in VA (when i went through my divorce,) as long as you and your husband can agree that you two have been seperated and living seperatly for 6 months if you have no kids, or 12 months if you have kids. Then that is what they consider a legal seperation. Some courts may require a letter from some one you both know who can verify your seperation.
If you arn't getting anywhere with laywers your calling, can you go by leagal/Jag on base (any base) and ask questions and see if they can assist you, it won't cost anything.
Take care, and do what that note said, Keep your chin up!!!
<span style="font-familyalatino Linotype">Ci è niente che potrte fare mai per rendermi
l'arresto che li amate ed ogni alito prendo è sempre nel vostro
interesse dormite all'interno dei miei sogni e conoscete
per sicuro chi potrebbe amarlo mai di più.
-Celine Dion (Miracle)</span>
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