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So Roy play's soccer always has. He had two games last night one at 7:50 and then another at 10:10...Well i was asleep when he left because i had layed down earlier to take a nap and just hadn't got up yet. I woke up not long after he had left to go to the game and I expected him to be home by 9, and he didnt show up. SO i called him and Krista (one of the Reffs) answered and told me he decided to stay and play another game. Which I didnt care that he had stayed and at least i knew he was okay and wasnt hurt or anything. I was just so upset at the fact that he didnt even bother to call me or text me to let me know he was staying for another game. It wouldnt have botherd me so much if he would have just told me. So he finally called me and I was crying i was so upset with him and he said he would come home and i told him i didnt want him to come home. I was upset as well because i had to eat dinner by myself (which i didnt even eat dinner last night)...I hate having to eat dinner by myself. I did it for 3 years with my ex...I ate almost EVERY meal alone when i was with my ex. I told Roy that I was upset that i was having to do that, I didnt figure that after 3 years of doing it alone that i would still have to do it once i got married. He didnt even say anything to that! I kn ow i got upset about stupid things, I just couldnt help myself. I ended up getting myself so worked up about it all that i started to spot last night I'm okay now. So the last message i sent Roy said "I'm bleeding. I'm going to bed now"...And that was it. I went to bed upset, hurt, spoting, and without dinner because i was so angry he didnt call me and tell me he was staying for another stupid game!!! I can't belive how much i've changed since i got pregnant. This wouldnt have botherd me to this degree if i wasnt pregnant! Its stupid i know!
Once he got home he like ran down the stairs...lol. He thought i was sleeping i wasnt i heard everything he said. He got changed real fast out of his soccer stuff and started talking to the baby. He was asking her if she was doing okay and that she needed to be taking care of mommy (me lol) and that he loved her and me with all his heart! It was cute. He sat there for a while just rubbing my belly and talking to her...Kept giving my belly kisses and giving me kisses on my hands and my forhead! God i love him so much. I just wish i could keep my temper under control sometimes! Sorry this is so long...Just wanted to get it off my chest. Any way, thanks for letting me share my dramatic night!
I had a bad temper when I was pregnant too.. I got so mad at a lot of things that wouldn't have bothered me so much if I wasn't.. But, at least your DH understands that. It was stupid of him not to call and tell you, I agree but tell him that and hopefully he'll make a note of it next time. Guys can be stupid lol.
How do you feel now??
·°· beckii ·°·
· found my reason for life , my precious girl 01.18.06 ·
· found the love of my life , my special man 01.01.12 ·
aww Kayla im sorry you had to go through that, casey gets mad at me cause I have a bad temper...he can come home and not even do anything and ill be all over him...thank god hes learned to put up with me.....i think its supposed to get better the further along you get
Roy knew i was upset lol..He said he would never do it again. I feel so bad though we can be joking around one min and then i just get sick of it and i'm all over his ***** the next lol.
I'm doing much better now. It wasn't a lot of spoting thankfully! I think i just worked myself up to much. I'm feeling great now. Not upset anymore haha...and no more spoting either so i'm good! lol...Till he makes me mad again..lol. It's amazing any of us girls still have men to go home to everynight after dealing with us while we are pregnant! lol