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If you could take back or change one thing in your life what would it be??? Why (only if you want to share why other wise you dont have to obviously lol)
Mine would have to be staying with my ex for so long. I was with him for 3 years through everything he put me through. If i could change one thing it would have to be, I wish i would have left him when he pushed me down the stairs. But I didnt...That was only 6 months into the relationship. I was with him for another 2 1/2 years before i left. He was a nice guy i though to begin with. But as time went on he was always putting me down, yelling at me getting mad at me for no reason accusing me of cheating on him. All that crap! I thank God everyday that Roy (husband now) came back into my life. We lost contact after he graduated from HS and came back into contact a month before i left my ex. If it wasn't for Roy i would still be with my ex and probably would have ended up marring him. I love my husband Roy with all my heart and like i said I thank God everyday that he rescued me out of that relationship! I knew it was hard for Roy as well as me, because Roy had to see me crying everyday for weeks because i wasn't sure i'd made the right decision. I knew i did, i was just upset that i had left the guy i loved for 3 years...Its so hard to leave someone you love...Even if it is better for you!
Im sry you had to go through that Kayla....Im glad you found your prince
The thing I would change is the fact that i have nothing to do with my sister....She has a lot of problems....when I was little her bf raped me...and she was in the next room...then she lied for him when i finally told someone, She has 3 kids and I love them sooo much i just cant stand to be around my sister...she still stay in contact with that guy and i dont trust her, i cant
i also regret staying wtih my ex for so long...we had nothing in common we were completely different and i wasted my whole time being 16 with him and we went out for a year cuz i was too scared to break up with him which i finally did..
I'm glad that you finally did break up with him Brina! lol I would have never dont it if Roy didnt convience me that this ex of mine wasn't good for me. I knew he wasnt good for me but i didnt think i was strong enough to leave him lol. I'm a wimp! haha
Wow girls glad you all found the courage and strength in you to get out of those bad situations. Mine isn't anything really, I just wish my husband and I wouldn't have been so quick to get a divorce. Yes he is the one I now live with again and we are expecting our second child LMAO. I got married the day after I turned 18 and I think maybe we rushed it but now we are better than ever!
I don't think I would change anything from my past. The past is what made me who I am today. I love my son and would do anything for him and wouldn't give him up for the world!!
I dont wanna say I regret anything because I was raised to live without regrets (dont think im being a snob..its just the way my dad raised me).
How I was when I was around 13. I had a really bad attitude towards my older brother. He was 16 at the time and he had told us all about his girlfriend being pregnant and I got so mad at him that I yelled and screamed and just ran out the door. I was gone for a couple hours. Me and my brother are sooo close and we really always have been. I knew that he had so many dreams and goals and that this was going to ruin it for him and I hated that. I didn't talk to him for a week and whenever he tried I would just say something really rude and basically tell him to f**k off. I didn't realize how much more difficult I was making it for him. In a way I definitely don't regret it because I was young and didn't want to see his life get messed up..but I know I could've handled it better. ever since that happened, we've still had a strong relationship but it has been a little weird...especially now that his daughter is turning 3 in Dec..and I have this one coming. I feel so bad though cause when I told him I was pregnant, he didn't react like I did. He was angry and upset but he stayed quiet and held it in...and then we sat and talked and stuff. It made me feel worse and I don't know if he's let it go..because every time I see my niece I remember how stupid I was and I beat myself up about it.
It might sound stupid to you guys..lol but it's a big deal to me. If you knew my brother you'd hate me for doin it! Sorry it's so long!
Wow girls glad you all found the courage and strength in you to get out of those bad situations. Mine isn't anything really, I just wish my husband and I wouldn't have been so quick to get a divorce. Yes he is the one I now live with again and we are expecting our second child LMAO. I got married the day after I turned 18 and I think maybe we rushed it but now we are better than ever![/b]
Thats totaly understandable. I married Roy just a month after getting out of my 3 year relationship I thought it was the wrong thing to have done for a few weeks but its all better now! I'm glad that you are happy and expecting your second baby! yay!
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I don't think I would change anything from my past. The past is what made me who I am today. I love my son and would do anything for him and wouldn't give him up for the world!! [/b]
Thats good to! I dont know as though i regret mine, just wish i would have known to have left him before it got so bad. I belive the same thing as you...The past makes us who we are today.
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I dont wanna say I regret anything because I was raised to live without regrets (dont think im being a snob..its just the way my dad raised me).
How I was when I was around 13. I had a really bad attitude towards my older brother. He was 16 at the time and he had told us all about his girlfriend being pregnant and I got so mad at him that I yelled and screamed and just ran out the door. I was gone for a couple hours. Me and my brother are sooo close and we really always have been. I knew that he had so many dreams and goals and that this was going to ruin it for him and I hated that. I didn't talk to him for a week and whenever he tried I would just say something really rude and basically tell him to f**k off. I didn't realize how much more difficult I was making it for him. In a way I definitely don't regret it because I was young and didn't want to see his life get messed up..but I know I could've handled it better. ever since that happened, we've still had a strong relationship but it has been a little weird...especially now that his daughter is turning 3 in Dec..and I have this one coming. I feel so bad though cause when I told him I was pregnant, he didn't react like I did. He was angry and upset but he stayed quiet and held it in...and then we sat and talked and stuff. It made me feel worse and I don't know if he's let it go..because every time I see my niece I remember how stupid I was and I beat myself up about it.
It might sound stupid to you guys..lol but it's a big deal to me. If you knew my brother you'd hate me for doin it! Sorry it's so long![/b]
Trust me no one thinks your a snob because you dont "regret" anything. I'm the same way i dont regret anything because we all learn from the things that happen to us. I'm glad that you have such a strong relationship with your brother! I'm sure he knew that you were just trying to look out for him. I'm glad that he didn't react the way you did when you told him you were pregnant. But i'm sure he understood that you were young when you did that. It doesnt sound stupid!
I also don't really regret anything... I learned from all my experiences.
BUT... I wish that I hadn't gone out with my ex. He was abusive, and I stayed with him for four months. I finally got fed up with it and left, and got back with Jason. And now we have a beautiful six month old son. I guess that it helped me learn who I really loved, but I have scars from the abuse that I wished I had never let happen.
one thing that i regret is when i was 14 i yelled at my mom and called her bad names that hurt her feelings, it was all because she had me when she was 17 and whenever i was in school ppl used to make fun of me cuz i had a tramp for mom it really made my days of going to school hard and i took it out on her saying that if she wasnt such a ... and a ... that i wouldnt be having a hard time with these kids, i regret this soooo much because i got pregnant and had sadie at the same age as she had me and she has been nothing but wonderful and great to us, she never once yelled at me or judged me she just helped me through it, and plus i think that if she hadnt had me i wouldnt have the wonderful daughter that i have now!
playing rugby after I found out I was pregnant with my first ... I think I caused the miscarriage, and I will NEVER forgive myself
But other than that I don't regret anything or else I wouldn't be who I am today !!
playing rugby after I found out I was pregnant with my first ... I think I caused the miscarriage, and I will NEVER forgive myself
But other than that I don't regret anything or else I wouldn't be who I am today !![/b]
I am sorry
My only regret is this past summer...I didnt something STUIPD & I wish I could take it back.
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Brandi.
Wife to Mark & loving mommy to Caitlin & Lorelai.
I also don't really regret anything... I learned from all my experiences.
BUT... I wish that I hadn't gone out with my ex. He was abusive, and I stayed with him for four months. I finally got fed up with it and left, and got back with Jason. And now we have a beautiful six month old son. I guess that it helped me learn who I really loved, but I have scars from the abuse that I wished I had never let happen.
I'm glad that you got out of it! I dont know as though i would have had the strength to get out of a relationship like that. Your a strong girl.
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one thing that i regret is when i was 14 i yelled at my mom and called her bad names that hurt her feelings, it was all because she had me when she was 17 and whenever i was in school ppl used to make fun of me cuz i had a tramp for mom it really made my days of going to school hard and i took it out on her saying that if she wasnt such a ... and a ... that i wouldnt be having a hard time with these kids, i regret this soooo much because i got pregnant and had sadie at the same age as she had me and she has been nothing but wonderful and great to us, she never once yelled at me or judged me she just helped me through it, and plus i think that if she hadnt had me i wouldnt have the wonderful daughter that i have now!
I'm sorry that you had to go through with that! Its hard being the one kid who gets teased in school! I'm sure you mom got teased while she was pregnant! I'm sure she understood. I'm glad that you have your daughter now and i'm glad that your mother helped you through it all.
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playing rugby after I found out I was pregnant with my first ... I think I caused the miscarriage, and I will NEVER forgive myself
But other than that I don't regret anything or else I wouldn't be who I am today !!
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It wasn't your fault Bekah you have to know that! Your little one just wasnt ready to show his/her face just yet!
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playing rugby after I found out I was pregnant with my first ... I think I caused the miscarriage, and I will NEVER forgive myself
But other than that I don't regret anything or else I wouldn't be who I am today !!
I am sorry
My only regret is this past summer...I didnt something STUIPD & I wish I could take it back.
I"m sorry about this past summer! There are some things i wish i could take back as well. But like it has been said many times before in this post...we all learn from our mistakes!
if i could change one thing...it would of changed the fact that i talked to dylans dad and started dating him..i regret it now but the only good thing that came out of it was dylan...
I am sorry 
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