[Shimmer]

Hi everyone I am 18yrs old, new 2 JM and 28 weeks pregnant (#1), the problem I am having that is affecting my relationship is my attitude due to pregnancy. Don't get me wrong I love being pregnant and I love my husband but it seems I am continuously yellin at him or hurting his feelings because my hormones are off the chart. I feel horrible after the fact and is totally apologetic towards him but I still feel bad, I really don't mean it but it's like I can't control it. Can somebody give me so good advice b/c I would hate 4 my marriage 2 turn sour B4 our 1st child is even here thnx a million!!!

[briena]

i personally would talk to him about it and say sorry and that you cant help it that its the hormones...and you two should go out and do something nice together


by the way welcome to the board!! hope you stick around

[irhungary1988]

Hi and welcome! Congrats on the pregnancy! I'm Dee, 19, with a 3 month old boy.


Maybe before going off the rocker at him, try to walk away and take some time to cool off.

[iSarcastic]

I would try to talk to him and educate him on the fact that your hormones are out of control and to not take everything you say so serious! Im sure he'll understand!

Btw, to the board! Hope you stick around!!

Im Krystal(20) and I live with my DF and we have a daughter named Jaidyn who is almost 1!

[Mommy217]

I did the same thing.. just try talking to him telling him you feel you cant control it.. I used to wake up marcus like 3 or 4 times a night to go get me water.. that is rude.. lol but its just what you do when your pregnant

[2pinks&ablue]

I do the exact same thing! (I'm 6 months pregnant)... I feel horrible afterwards, my fiance is really great and he waits on me constantly, he's always doing something for me and then I fly off on him. At first he'd get insulted, but then he started to realize that it wasn't really me. Now, he just says, "Chan, are you just saying this because you're pregnant?" At first it made me so mad! But now, when I take time to think about it, the answer is usually yes and I'm able to back off.

BTW, welcome to JM!

Hey, I just realized that we're due at about the same time, you're just 2 days before me (Aug. 28th)... We're 2/3s of the way there! Wohoo!

[xceptionalchic4]

Welcome to the board.. I'm Dominique 21 and SO rashad who is 27 and we have a 1 year old together

I was kinda the same way pregnant.. Really mean.. just talk to him and explain that u dont mean to be like that,.. and its just that you're going through so many changes with hormones.. sorry sweetie.. sometimes its something u cant control

I would ask him to join you at the library and you both could educate yourself on what you are feeling. If anything jumps at you say I am experiencing that and ok this is what we can do to help it or something like that.

[Shimmer]

Thnx everybody I will use this advice and hopefully my situation will get better, I am really going to try hard...........I'll keep u updated

[Dombone]

Good luck!