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Shadow says:
kewl tell her i said hi and i love her
~♥~ Stace ~♥~ says:
why dont you email her on call her and tell her
Shadow says:
not my style
~♥~ Stace ~♥~ says:
its not your style to talk to your daughter?
Shadow says:
i have issues stll with her
~♥~ Stace ~♥~ says:
about what
Shadow says:
she left me
Shadow says:
he was my whole world
Shadow says:
she
~♥~ Stace ~♥~ says:
she was also like 9 why dont you just try talking to her
Shadow says:
she needs to start the dialoge
Shadow says:
liz used to intercept my emails i never got them but me and her are done now
Shadow says:
tell brie nd stef to email me i will respond
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how pathetic he sounds like hes 10! ive tried tons of times to email him but since his gf..who by the way i have friends older than...........she deleted ALL the emails i sent him and now he wont email me first because when i was NINE years old my mom and him fought over custody for me and my mom won...cuz i chose to go live with her.....i knew either my mom or my dad would end up hating me so i figured since my dad had me for almost 10 years that it was my moms turn. ugh.im gonna email him but not cuz i want to fix our relationship..its time he starts sending me the money hes promised me since i was 13...how many times ive checked the bank and it hasnt been there is beyond me.
I know how all that goes.I hope everything works out tho.A girl really needs her dad in her life somewhat.Mine has his new lil g/f and neither me nor my little sister exist anymore.It is really sad.Good Luck I hope you can fix what is broken.
It doesn't even matter why you chose to live with your mom, you were nine years old. What kind of grown man blames their issues on a decision made by a nine-year-old girl? And their own child, for that matter?
I'm sorry your dad's like that. I know too many people with dads like that, it's terrible...
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I met my dad for the first time when I was 14. Its another to k now them and them still not be there. Ask Robert, he lived in the same house as his dad and his dad still was not a father.
I agree, how can he hold something like that against you, you were only nine years old... I don't really celebrate father's day w/ my "dad". We lived together as a "family" for 15 years and he was never a big part of my life -- I barely knew him.
I'm sorry things are so bad w/ your dad but I hope that you can build back a bit of the relationship,
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beckii ... momma to my beautiful princess Mikayla Lynn 01.18.06
It is really immature for him to do that to you. You do need your dad in your life though. It wouldn't hurt to send him an email and I'm sure you wouldn't regret it if you did. Why don't you just email him telling him how you feel and how you did try to email him but it was obvious they were deleted before he got to them. Me and my dad didn't have a relationship for awhile either. I had to initiate it back mainly because men just don't do the whole emotional thing taking the first step even though they are supposed to be the adults. But, it was worth it and I love having my dad back in my life now.
i emailed him.i wasnt particularly nice but i wasnt a total #####.......i told him that id give him another chance since his stupid gf deleted my emails.. he actually emailed me back! he told me he talks to my sister amanda more than he talks to me because she never had him in her life and she needs a father (he only started talkin to her when she was 15) and he told me that i could be her but she could never be me because i was his world.... (by the way hes not stephs real father, she found this out when she was 6..it was really hard )...........so i emailed him back and told him that he doeant have to give one more attention than the other because we both need a father in our life.
oh and about my sister amanda..i never really talk about her because i only found out about her when i was 16. apparently my dad always knew he had another daughter somewhere but failed to mention it...actually he knew she lived in london..and he knew she lived there AT THE SAME TIME AS ME....i lived there for 2 or 3 years and could have easily met her! i finally met her last summer i think it was...and thats the only time ive ever seen her we talk on msn sometimes tho.
Oh Brie!! I'm so proud of you!! That was amazing nice about what your dad said though. It's kinda one of those touching father daughter moments, lol. That is nuts about Steph - but at least you both have the same mom so y'all were able to be close. All my siblings are from my dad so I was never able to really be around them. I really hope everything with your dad works out.
i was steph's age when i found out my older sister wasn't my dads.. they never tried to keep it from us, but they never tried to tell us either.. they told tanya when they knew the time was right.. she decided to find her real dad, and realized why my mom never kept him around.. hes got 15 kids.. 10 of them with other women.... my dad came around when tanya was 18 months old, and hes been her father since.. to this day he doesn't think of her as being someone else's, just his.. he talked to her about switching her name to his, but she decided to keep my moms name, because she was so far into life with it....
i hope everything works out for you in the end.. a girl always needs that male figure in her life, even if we don't admit it most of the time!!..
That bites! Your dad needs to come see you, get an email his gf doesn't know about (or know the pw to), or something.
Want to know why I didn't celebrate Father's Day with my dad?
He's at Camp Shelby (a military camp here) training to go to Iraq in a couple months.
You could've told your dad happy father's day at least whereas I missed out and am afraid that will be my last father's day with him.
I'm not trying to make you feel bad for me or anything but you still have plenty of Father's Day and plenty of opportunities to at least try to say something. I may never have one again.
Sorry about that. This Iraq thing is one of the things I had to deal with when I was on a break from here.
That bites! Your dad needs to come see you, get an email his gf doesn't know about (or know the pw to), or something.
Want to know why I didn't celebrate Father's Day with my dad?
He's at Camp Shelby (a military camp here) training to go to Iraq in a couple months.
You could've told your dad happy father's day at least whereas I missed out and am afraid that will be my last father's day with him.
I'm not trying to make you feel bad for me or anything but you still have plenty of Father's Day and plenty of opportunities to at least try to say something. I may never have one again.
Sorry about that. This Iraq thing is one of the things I had to deal with when I was on a break from here.[/b]
this all happend on fathers day and i did email him that day and told him i forgave him and still love him.
Your dad needs to get off the leash his gf has him on and become his own man and that includes not blaming you for something that happened when you were 9! His girlfriend sounds like my dad, childish!
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Krystal(25) married to David and proud mommy of "wildchild" Jaidyn
they broke up. thats why hes able to talk to me again. im a little hurt that he waited so long and was allowing her to stop him from talking to me but whatver..i gave him another chance.
Good! Now take this chance and use it to your advantage.
Like "can you buy me a car? You know, to make up for our lost time together."
or something. I don't know[/b]
lol! i was thinking about asking him for a little money but i wont. i asked him for a bit when i was 13 he said hed send me a "c note" or whatever its called. ..but it never showed up in the bank!
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