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Ok so I should really not look on the internet anymore! LOL I keep worrying myself now about what could possibly go wrong and freaked out that I am going to lose the baby. Everything I found about what the doctor described to me is miscarriage in the first AND second trimesters and IF I am the lucky 10% and make it past the miscarriage stage, I am highly likely to going into preterm labor. Ugh...4 weeks is WAAAY too long for me to stress about this! I even went to the lake today, to get out and have a good time and we are going to BBQ and watch movies in a little bit (lol yeah at 9 at night! ahaha) but I just can't shake this bad feeling. Not to mention the cramps make me worry more. I felt the little guy move last night so I know as of now he is ok, but why do docs make you wait sooo ###### long?!!? Ok thanks for letting me vent.
Hun - Try not to worry. Stress is one of the worst things for ur body during pregnancy.
If U feel U should have Ur date moved up & call & make them move it up due to what U read. But a 4week appt is normal for as far as long as U are. If Ur doc thought it was a HUGE risk I am sure he would have made U gone it sooner.
Try not to stress hun, I am here if U need me.
Wife to Mark & loving mommy to Caitlin & Lorelai.
Ditto what Brandi said, TRY not to stress!! I know its hard but its the best thing you can do for your baby.. and 4 weeks is a long time but if you feel something is wrong in your gut, then I'd make an extra appt. w/ your DR sooner, just to be safe.
beckii ... momma to my beautiful princess Mikayla Lynn 01.18.06
awe hun I am so sorry you are feeling this way! I know what you mean about the cramps and the worrying, my appt isn't until sept. but thats definately not as far away as 4 weeks I know I couldn't wait that long! I am sure everything is alright with your little one -- just try not to worry ( I know easier said than done)
Thanks girls!! The thing is I didn't stress at all until after that last appointment! Last night I felt the lil guy moving a lot, probably 4-5 times in about 20 minutes while I was watching Dead Silence! I am trying to relax and tell myself that if it was REAL bad he would have me seen sooner. Thank you again for all the support!!