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August 26th, 2007, 10:41 AM
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.. in a relationship? Just curious!

To me, personally, yes. But that could change if I find someone that I really love who's a fair bit older/younger then me. I'd say right now my comfort zone is no more then 5 yrs older.. and I don't usually go for younger guys, if ever, most likely only a year or so.

I have nothing against people who are in relationships w/ big age gaps.. my mom is one of them! I just wish it was w/ a man who really was a man.. and not a boy who THINKS he's a man
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August 26th, 2007, 10:54 AM
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I would have to say yes... I personally could never really get into someone who is like 30, to me... It just grosses me out I'm like you... I think the oldest I could go and be comfortable with it would be 5 years!
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August 26th, 2007, 10:57 AM
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IDK! It totally depends...sometimes I would think no older than 5 years, but there are some 28-30 year olds that are HOT! I guess it would totally depend on the person, honestly you can't help who you fall in love with, kwim? Ted is 4 years older
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August 26th, 2007, 11:01 AM
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No, I think people fall in love at all ages with anyone at any age, but I do think there is boundry. Like a 50 year old dating a 20 year is ridiculous. But like me, I have this one special guy who is 28 and I have talked to him for like one year and when he called to check on me and I told him I was done with Robert, he told me that he had been crushing the entire time.
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August 26th, 2007, 11:33 AM
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i think its fine if thats what you prefer..i personally dont like younger guys..not even by a year, major turn off lol....at least two years older is good for me
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August 26th, 2007, 12:05 PM
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L0L same Brie....I was turned off by the guys in my same grade. Haha. Actually I was turned off by guys still in high school!
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August 26th, 2007, 12:37 PM
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L0L same Brie....I was turned off by the guys in my same grade. Haha. Actually I was turned off by guys still in high school![/b]

lol yeah same here.....its funny cuz when i went to school i hung out with seans "little brother" as i always call him..but really hes the exact same age as me and he used to hit on me before sean started to hahaha but ugh i thought he was majorly immature haha
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August 26th, 2007, 12:45 PM
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August 26th, 2007, 01:34 PM
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everyone have their own prefers.. im engaged to the guy r just only two days younger than me.. and it is RARELY haha
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August 26th, 2007, 02:57 PM
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Yes.. I wouldn't date a guy who isn't atleast my age or older, and I wouldn't date anyone who was old enough to be my dad. I think my cut off limit is like 8 years older.
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August 26th, 2007, 06:22 PM
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As long as I don't feel like I have to say "yes sir" then I don't care. I almost went out with a 35 year old.
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August 26th, 2007, 06:32 PM
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Kinda. The cut off age for me is 5 yrs older.
Cedric is gonna be 23 so it's kool. He is the oldest guy I have been with, and I compare it to the guys my age, and OMG there is def a difference. Can def see where the maturity level is at.
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August 26th, 2007, 09:39 PM
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I wouldn't ever date anyone younger than me right now. Maybe if I was 30 and he was 29 or something. But right now, a year makes such a difference in maturity.

The oldest I'd go right now is 25 and I'm 18, so that's 7 years older. I do prefer older and Jesse is 20.
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August 26th, 2007, 11:24 PM
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I've never gotten along with people my own age period, let alone been attracted to or dated any. In fact the youngest guy I dated was 19 when I was 14... and that relationship was such a mess it's not even funny, but not because of ages at all.

My bf now just turned 25 and I'm 18. We've known each other for 8 years and honestly even when I was 10 and he was 16/17 we got along really well (or at least he was just nicer to me than my brother, who was his best friend, was ). We've always had a lot in common and the age gap really isn't anything to us...
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August 27th, 2007, 07:12 AM
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im 19 and shane is almost 32. (in 2 days!)

thats 13 years.

and we have a son and are as happy as anythign!
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August 27th, 2007, 08:03 AM
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I'm 25 and Pierre is 34... so 9 years.
I cant date people my age, but from day 1 Pierre and I just got along so well, and I could never imagine having anyone my age again. Pierre is just so much more mature then the guys I was daing before him.
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August 27th, 2007, 12:35 PM
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DH and I have a 16 years difference, so I obviously dont have a problem with age. If 2 people the same age get along great, but if 2 people who an age gap like each other its just as well to me....

Im 17 and DH is 34, and people ONLINE are constantly saying its wierd, although anyone who knows us doesn't seem to have a problem with it.....seems backwards to me lol
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August 27th, 2007, 05:29 PM
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Yes and no.. to me personally I'd say 5 years is my limit. The oldest guy I dated was 20 at the time, and I was 16 (barely).. and that didn't last too long. And I don't date guys younger than me, ever lol. But that's just a personal preference too.

Mike is 18 and I'm 16, so it's only 2 years.. but my mom has a friend that's 35 and her husband is like 68 and they're great together (he has kids that are older than her!), so I guess it just depends on the people..
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August 27th, 2007, 06:42 PM
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honestly yeah and no...for me i would never date anyone younger then me..just a turn off (guys are sometimes immature when there 25 or i wonder what a 16-17 might be lol ...even though every guy is different)...now i wouldnt date anyone in there 50s or late 40s but dylan and my daughters dad turned 37 in march!..im only 19..so its an 18 year difference
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August 28th, 2007, 04:18 AM
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It is somewhat.. I wouldn't date anyone that was 5 years older than I am which would be 25. My DH is actually 8 months younger than I am and he's one of the most mature, responsible people I know but I think that depends on the person. I wouldn't date anyone younger than 1 year of my age.
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