[Lash]

I just dont care I guess. I mean I care and want a baby but I think that humans in general can only experience intense emotions and settings before they typically numb for a period. This is the same thing I discuss with my clients and I guess I"m going through it. I'm just numb, I could care less about charting (its hit and miss) and I have no drive to have sex just for a baby.

[Mod-LadyCoconut]

maybe this is the point where all those people are like "when you stop trying it just happens" or whatever the hell that means? you know what's best for you... if you need to mentally check out for a cycle or something... go for it!

besides, this cycle your EDD doesn't fall on a holiday. I bet it'll be 4th of july for next cycle! but you'll still be missing my birthday baby! or father's day..ish?

Ive been like that several times, then when O comes I HAVE to try. Do whats best for Lauren!

I've been there girl. In fact, I am mostly there until it comes to around 9 dpo or so. Sometimes you gotta say what the F*** (Anyone? anyone?)

But yeah, ditto Shannon.

[ShannonMVT]

I have really been there but always jumped back in the saddle once I got some cm.

You do what is best for you. *huggle*

[Lash]

Yeah I'm wondering if that horny ovulation time will kick in-- but you are totally right that I've gotta take care of me. Clint is open to whatever, but I think he's just saying what I need to hear so I dont have a freakout on him. He doesnt "really" want to take off, but he'll do what it takes to take care of me I think.

Who knows

[petalfuzz]

I feel like that all the time! I guess keeping up with this board makes me happy for other people, but more often than not I just don't want a baby right now. Eh, it'll happen when it happens

[Mars]

Sometimes you do need to take a break! All I can say, is to do what you feel is right at this point. It's difficult when TTC loses the excitement and becomes more like a chore. If you feel you need to take a little time off to "recharge" and then go again, then you have to do that, otherwise, you're absolutely right, it just becomes depressing.

I know we usually want to slap people silly when they say that maybe when you stop trying it will happen but I was one of those persons that the month I went and bought a pack of pills and decided that maybe I'd hold off for a few months (until after my friend's wedding) I got pregnant.