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September 9th, 2008, 09:30 AM
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Don't have to answer if your uncomfortable I am just wondering.....

How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?

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September 9th, 2008, 09:39 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it) With Taylor we did it more in the first trimester but I have NO desire to have sex this time. It was less appealing in the 3rd trimester and we had sex A LOT less.

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?
Sex has always been the same for me.

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?
We don't do that.. it weirds me out even though he wants to

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?
Sometimes... this sounds so crazy but I'd rather not be intimate and be touched, I just wanna get the job done

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?
I wouldn't do it

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?
More sensitive

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?
Yes, I started at 4/5 months with Taylor! It was crazy! It only got worse so I wore a bra LoL
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September 9th, 2008, 09:51 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)
pre-baby 5-6 times a week with no AF.
1st-2-3 times a week (less because of my m/s)
2nd -?
3rd-?

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?
I'm finding it harder, which is odd I thought it would be easier with the increase blood flow and hormones.

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?
He says some time i do and sometimes I don't....pre pregnancy it wasn't an issue.

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)? Yes but again its harder.

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers? We did it a couple times and now i'm thinking maybe wasn't a great idea.

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same? less sensitive, which again I thought would be the opposite. They are all most numb...he has to really kind of bite them to get any response. (have have teeth marks most days----I wonder if this will help them toughen up for breastfeeding at least )

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex? To early to tell yet. I was just wondering. I thought it would be more for BTDT moms on the 2nd or more pregnancy, but then I heard a first timer have it happen so now I'm curious.

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September 9th, 2008, 09:55 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it) Hardly ever. I didn't want it, I was worried about miscarriage

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters? Never orgasmed during pregnancy

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers? No

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same? More

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex? No
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September 9th, 2008, 09:55 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)

Not often during the whole pregnancy. At first it freaked me out then him, and now that we both want it we can't have it!

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?
WAY easier and WAY better!

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you? He hasn't done that in a while. He doesn't like that when he looks up all he sees is my big bump staring back at him LOL!!!

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?
yep

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers? I would say no, because is not the safest to do when not pregnant unless you want a nasty UTI!

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same? Every thing about my nipples have changed!

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex? No but I did have boobgers once!
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September 9th, 2008, 10:09 AM
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Honestly I was to afraid to do anthing to lose the baby...I know dumb, you can't lose the baby by having sex I was just to worried We only had sex 3 times the whole time I was preggo. It was alays im wanting it. The last few weeks I wanted to have sex but he was to afraid too....Now He wants It all the time again and It's so hard to find time cause she's ALWAYS awake!!!!!
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September 9th, 2008, 10:47 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)
It was me who wanted it at first and him/me later on. It freaked him out at first. But as time went on he was okay with it - we did it less but not ALOT LESS.

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?


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September 9th, 2008, 10:47 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)
It was me who wanted it at first and him/me later on. It freaked him out at first. But as time went on he was okay with it - we did it less but not ALOT LESS. We

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?


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September 9th, 2008, 10:47 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)
It was me who wanted it at first and him/me later on. It freaked him out at first. But as time went on he was okay with it - we did it less but not ALOT LESS. We definitely do

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?


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September 9th, 2008, 10:47 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)
It was me who wanted it at first and him/me later on. It freaked him out at first. But as time went on he was okay with it - we did it less but not ALOT LESS. We definitely

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?


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September 9th, 2008, 10:51 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)
It was me who wanted it at first and him/me later on. It freaked him out at first. But as time went on he was okay with it - we did it less but not ALOT LESS. We definitely do it ALOT less now that we have a toddler.

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?
Same

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?
Not that I know of and not that he said - although he wondered (out loud) when we first found out...

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?
Yep - its pretty much the only way I can O - and he was in the navy then so I did it when he was gone for long stretches.

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?
Probably - I never did - never had the op

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?
Same - not very sensitive

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?
At the very end but not during sex - just in the shower mainly.


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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)
It was me who wanted it at first and him/me later on. It freaked him out at first. But as time went on he was okay with it - we did it less but not ALOT LESS. We definitely do it ALOT

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?


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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)
It was me who wanted it at first and him/me later on. It freaked him out at first. But as time went on he was okay with it - we did it less but not ALOT LESS. We definitely do it ALOT less

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters?

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?


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September 9th, 2008, 11:36 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)
Not very often. Maybe once a week? It was him that initiated most of it... I did a couple times. I wouldn't say I didn't want it... I just wasnt the one who started things haha.


Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters? Easier for sure


Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you? I don't think taste.. but I think maybe smell?


Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)? Nope.


Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers? I always thought that wasn't safe even when not pregnant? I would say unsafe for sure right now.


Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same? So sensitive!!!!


At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex? Nope, just colostrum. My milk didn't come in until a day or so after Curtis was born. But yup I leaked colostrum alot hehe.
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September 9th, 2008, 11:36 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it) We both want it but it was very hard with m/s in the first and beginning of the 2nd trimester. When I was sure that my m/s was gone, we had a go and it and it was nice (very refreshing ) but now that I may have placenta previa, I'm a bit afraid to try again.

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters? It was about the same

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you? We avoided that. I think I was a bit freaked out because of all the CM I was having.

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)? No.

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers? I don't know if it's safe or not but I wouldn't.

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same? A lot more sensitive

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex? That hasn't happened to me as yet.
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September 9th, 2008, 12:27 PM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it) We never have sex during the first trimester and that's mutual. After our miscarriage we don't want to jeopardize anything. Plus I always get bad m/s.
The second trimester only a couple times.
More often in the third trimester but still not a lot simply because the huge belly really gets in the way and makes most positions impossible.

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters? I found it much easier but the cramping it caused hurt so bad I never wanted to.

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you? Not that he mentioned.

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)? No, orgasms hurt way too bad.

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers? I don't really know. We didn't.

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same? More sensitive in the beginning then tapered off. Once I started breastfeeding all sensation left my nipples. It only started coming back a month or two ago.

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex? Nope, never. Not even after I had the babies and was breastfeeding. Ian did mistakingly get a "taste" once though.
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September 9th, 2008, 12:38 PM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it) Ha! We had sex one time in the beginning of my pregnancy. He wasn't into it once I was pregnant.

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters? I can reach orgasm (we are talking by myself) but it's not a strong orgasm. It is VERY dull feeling.

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you? n/a

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)? It was my only option! lol

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers? I don't think I would. I have no clue if it's safe.

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same? I don't care for my nipples to be messed with.

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex? I have never leaked anything out of my nipples yet at any time.
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Don't have to answer if your uncomfortable I am just wondering.....

How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it)

Um, only a couple times during the 1st trimester, and so far in the 2nd trimester only like 3 times!

Did you find it harder to
orgasm or easier during those trimesters?
Orgasms are easier for me during pregnancy in general because of the increased blood flow

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you?
We haven't done that in a while (hmm you're giving me ideas lol)

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)?
Constantly lol! For some reason I just don't feel like having sex but I love getting the big O

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers?
I wouldn't want to probably just because you never know what is in a pool (yucky) and you wouldn't want any crazy bacteria in there or anything. I don't like DTD in water though because it takes away all the natural lubrication.

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same?

Much more sensetive! Usually I don't want him to touch them now

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?

Nope, never. And I didn't DTD with ex-DH until my milk actually dried up. We only DTD twice the last year we were together....
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September 9th, 2008, 08:34 PM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? I am in the first trimester now, and we have sex perhaps twice a week.

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters? I am finding that it is easier to orgasm...I orgasm every time that we have sex now (whereas before, I would orgasm usually only around ovulation time), and I have been having sexual dreams where I think I even orgasm while I'm sleeping. I have definately noticed an increase in my sex drive.

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you? I'm not sure about that one.

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)? Yes, although I feel a little guilty about it because I'm pregnant and looking at all of these dirty pictures.

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers? I don't know too much about the safety of sex in water, but I don't think I would do it during pregnancy.

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same? I think that my nipples are less sensitive, I'm not sure why.

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex?[/b] Not yet, at least.
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September 10th, 2008, 12:28 AM
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How often did you have intercourse during your 1st/2nd/3rd trimester? (was it you or him who did/didn't want it) None - neither of us feel comfortable with baby in there!

Did you find it harder to orgasm or easier during those trimesters? Easier

Did DH notice any taste difference when giving oral sex to you? Pass!

Did you still masturbate (assuming you did pre--pregnancy)? Teehee....

Do you think its safe to still have sex in pools and ocean water while preggers? Personally, I wouldn't for the hygiene point of view, but I don't know how un/hygienic it would be.

Did your nipples become more or less sensitive, or stay the same? Too sore for too much playfulness!

At any time during your pregnancy did you leak milk during sex? Not DTD thing, but not had leakage whilst playing

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