[Erma81]

Im a mother to a beautful 9month baby girl(Jezsalinda also known as Jezsy) who is here with me today and a beautiful baby girl(Natalia Angel) who flies in the sky who we lost on August 11,2006. It took 8yrs to conceive our Angel in heaven and another year to conceive our daughter Jezsy after the loss of Natalia. They both are our miracles since we though we could never have kids.

Well shortly after giving birth to Jezsy I realized that I loved being a mommy so much that I felt I was ready to try again, but I still wanted to give it time. Well now my Jezsy is 9 months old and I am really really wanting to try again. I have a great husband who is also the best father and a great family who is also very supportive. I know if we try again and hopefully do get preggo soon we will have all the help and support we need. But here comes the guilt...am I thinking of ttc to soon? Is it fare for Jezsy? I know Jezsy is young but do you think she will feel less loved even though we give her the same amount of attention? Im so confused!!!

Any sort of advice would help please!!!

Ermalinda

I don't think you are crazy! Nor do I think it's unfair on your gorgeous girl! You're giving her a sibling to grow up with... that's not unfair!!

[Mars]

[Alison81]

My ex's kids and my bff's kids are both 18 months apart, and I can tell you in both cases, marriages suffered. The early years are REALLY tough with them that close in age. On the plus side, my ex's kids are now 6 and 4.5, and it is soooo easy and wonderful now. The closeness in age makes it really easy to do activities they both enjoy, and you don't have one very independent child and one that needs all your guidance. So I see the disadvantages and the plus's. But I'd say if you really want to have another one now, why not??

[LisanAndy]

Not at all! My kids will be 17.5 months apart. I was TTC for one month and we found out the day Taylor turned 9 months old that I was preggo with our 2nd. I think it's great!

[Erma81]

Thanks so much girl!! I was worried because I didnt want others to think I was crazy or thinking irresponsibly. My husband also wants another. I think we are going to try and hope we hit the jack pot very soon. It took forever for us to give birth to a healthy child(10yrs trying and 3 losses) now I pray we get blessed soon. Once again thak you ladeis so much


Oh quick question?????? How do you keep your signature on here without having to place it in everytime??? Sorry im new to these boards.