[HopeWishWait]

Maybe it's just hormones, I don't know but I have to get this out because I can't sleep I'm so angry.

Here's the background. Before DH and I got together he had another girlfriend. She lives in Thailand where his family lives (his dads in the army) he met her over the summer while he was staying with them and continue to see her for quite a while once he came back to the States. I will spare you all the gorey details, most of which he hasn't even told me because he hates to talk about her but this woman DESTROYED his relationship with his parents (which is thank god being fixed now), stole almost 5,000 dollars from him, forced him to change all his bank and credit card info because she had it and was using it, and basically cut his faith in women down to nothing.

Here's the present. It's 2:30 am here. Nic's phone starts going off so I wake him up and tell him to go get it. By the time he gets it the call is ended but he can see it's from Thailand. It's 2:30 pm there so he assumes its his parents and something is wrong because who the heck else would be calling? He calls them back, wasn't them. He gives his mom the number that called and she recognizes it as his ex girlfriends. Nic hasn't talked to this woman since like January. There is NO reason for her to be calling except to screw with him so more. And I am FURIOUS...not at him of course. If she thinks for one second that she's going to get between my family ESPECIALLY when I'm six months pregnant she is so sorely mistaken. I know she'll call again though, and I can't wait. She better pray Nic answers and not me.

[~* Helen *~]

Aww hun, I'm sorry you have to deal with this xx

[*JenJen*]

I'm sorry you have to deal with that crap. I'd suggest changing your phone number so she can't call anymore.

[soImarriedAnerd]

Since I'm in Thailand you want me to go knock some sense into her!

[petalfuzz]

Oh, good luck with that situation! It sounds horrible and dramatic. Try not to stress too much--bad for the baby! But how did she get his number anyway??

[HopeWishWait]

Since I'm in Thailand you want me to go knock some sense into her! [/b]

Yes! Agh I'm just so angry, I wish I could go to Thailand and just claw her a little bit. I know Nic is going to be super upset about this because he gets upset just THINKING about her and now for her to just show up out of the blue like this. *mumbles profanities under her breath* (I'm trying not to swear anymore because Conner has ears now )

Oh, good luck with that situation! It sounds horrible and dramatic. Try not to stress too much--bad for the baby! But how did she get his number anyway??[/b]

She had it from back when they broke up. He never changed it because they had a big blowout at the end and he told her never to call him again..and until last night she listented to it. I'm sure if she had called him at all before this he would have changed the number..which is why i don't understand why she's doing it now.

*sigh*

[soImarriedAnerd]

Yes! Agh I'm just so angry, I wish I could go to Thailand and just claw her a little bit. I know Nic is going to be super upset about this because he gets upset just THINKING about her and now for her to just show up out of the blue like this. *mumbles profanities under her breath* (I'm trying not to swear anymore because Conner has ears now )

[/b]

HAHAHAHA

Thats so crap for her to do!

[Mars]

Bleh!! If she does call back I hope he gives her another good telling off and hopefully she'll never call again. Otherwise, the changing number is the next best bet.

[alicenwonderland]

I agree with JenJen. He needs to change his # and lose that girl once and for all

Im sorry you have to deal with that Cait!! I would call her back if I was you, and let her know that shes not welcome to be calling YOUR husband!! Dont let her get to you!!