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November 9th, 2008, 10:44 PM
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My Dr wants to put us on a sex schedule when I start my Clomid!! I won't tell Dh this, I don't want him to think it is a chore...lol!!! What about me though??? How am I supposed to "get going" when I know it is all planned??? I know you need lots of "wetness" lol down there to make the "spermies" swim, what if that doesn't happen because I feel pressured?? Is there some sort of lube I can use, that won't kill the swimmers?? Maybe one that will even help??
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November 9th, 2008, 10:55 PM
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I was on a sex schedule with Clomid as well.

And yup, you can use PreSeed! It is lube that is formulated to help the swimmers. Google it, you will probably have to order it online, I never saw it in any stores.

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November 9th, 2008, 11:03 PM
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Did you use it??? What site did you order it from??

Whats better....the Lube or the kind with the applicator??
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November 9th, 2008, 11:37 PM
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Yup, I used it. For several months actually and the month I got a BFP. I only used about 1/3 of a tube each time. I used the kind that had the applicator.

I really don't remember where I ordered it from. This site has it with free shipping. http://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com...lubricant.html
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November 9th, 2008, 11:50 PM
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I actually just ordered it!!! I got it from the pre-seed website!!! It was 14.99 per pack of 6!!! I ordered 2!!! I hope it works!!! Thanks for all your help!!
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November 9th, 2008, 11:59 PM
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Yay! I love preseed! Not only is it good for spermies, its the nicest most natural feeling lube you'll ever use it. I love it! It works great for those fertile days that you just can't get in the mood. I get the reusable tube with the applicators. I don't need nearly as much as they reccomend. Only about 1-2 ml. *geez i sound like a commercial don't i?*
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November 10th, 2008, 01:16 AM
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November 10th, 2008, 02:57 AM
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gl girlie. Also if you notice you are "dry" with clomid, you can take guafinesin when it gets close to O to promote fertile CM. I took the recommended dosage 1-2 times a day from the last day of clomid until I was sure I had O'd to make sure i'd have lots of fertile CM. Just make sure you are taking only guafinesin, no other active ingredients
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good luck with the PreSeed! I hear good things about it!
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November 10th, 2008, 04:24 AM
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Since your not pregnant WHILE trying to get pregnant---a good stiff drink works great also, I actually watch porn (not for everyone I know) to help me out on nights I'm just not that in the mood (some good movies work well also-anything with Vin Desil or action works well for me LOL). Dancing-thats a big turn on for me also. Try to do those activities that you KNOW turn you on, make it fun!

Some drinks/naughtiness are part of my horny thailand method
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November 10th, 2008, 05:48 AM
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Well maybe I'm just a freak, but I don't do well with "spontaneous" sex! I think we've only had it a few times, usually one of us will say something at least a few hours before, so we can get in the mood for later.

And I'm still a little weird because we always use lube. I think we've only not had to use it 2-3 times--I'm just a dry person. The only difference for us between "trying" and "not preventing" (besides timing sex better) is using Pre-seed instead of KY.

But most often for me, the more often we have it, the more I want it! So having a sex schedule should help, not hurt. Good luck!!

Are you going to try charting again so we can stalk??
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November 10th, 2008, 07:18 AM
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^^^ I agree! The more you do it the more you want it!
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November 10th, 2008, 02:57 PM
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I'm with Carolyn - scheduled sex actually works better for me. LOL I guess it's because then I can think about it for a while beforehand, and that is more likely to get me in the mood. Sexy magazines or stories help... lots of making out... dirty talk hehehe... and of course TONS of foreplay. Ask him for a massage, that's a no-fail for me. My DH sucks at actual massages (like if I truly had a sore muscle, he'd be no help) it is more about having his hands all over me hehe.
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November 10th, 2008, 03:34 PM
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You may actually feel more in the mood because you know what the ultimate goal is. DH and I have always had a pretty good sex life but when we started to NTNP, I found that I could get turned on at the drop of a hat.

I've also heard good things about preseed and was actually considering using it after I wasn't getting EWCM or much CM but something worked for me and I never got to try it.
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November 10th, 2008, 07:05 PM
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You ladies are so wonderful!!!

Angela- Your right a good stiff drink..or two always helps.....porn to!!!

Im just concerned with DH's schedule we will have to DTD at odd times, like 3:30 in the afternoon before he goes to work...or on my lunch break...nothing turns me on more than other people saliva on my uniform!!! LOL
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November 10th, 2008, 07:34 PM
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Mucinex and Pre-seed actually do the trick!
Rite Aid sell Pre-seed
http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp...=BUY-PLST-0-CAT
Good luck!
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November 11th, 2008, 01:24 AM
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Whats your guys work schedules like?
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November 11th, 2008, 08:32 PM
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Whats your guys work schedules like?[/b]
I work monday to thursday 8-5 and kyle works rotating shifts....4 nights, 3 off, 3 days, 1 off, 3 nights, 3 off, 4 days, 7 off!!! His shifts are 5am to 5 pm or 5 pm to 5am!!!

IT SUCKS!!!
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