Ugh, I am sorry Alice. I was really hoping you would be that rare woman that won't turn up a positive urine test. TTC so far has really been a struggle for you. Why do you have to wait until the spring to continue?
I think there is a chance you
might be in another anovulatory cycle, and I'll tell you why in case it is helpful for the future.
1. I was being obsessive so I charted your temps and other signs into my TCOYF charting software. It also gave you an O date (a few days later then FF), but since that software does not willy nilly leave out temps it deems out of the ordinary like FF (I can't stand FF), your chart looked more erratic. Usually the 6 temps before ovulation are all lower then post O temps with some wiggle room, but you had a few that were just as high and were omitted by FF which made your chart appear more stable then it was.
2. Your post O temps are not that high esp.considering you are temping vaginally (which I think means slightly higher temps). If most of your pre-O temps were around 97.0 then the post O temps would be considered a significant jump though.
3. When you were describing all your symptoms it reminded me of when I had long anovulatory cycles

Every woman is different, but getting tons of symptoms those first few weeks doesn't seem to ever fit for me. But that is b/c when I had anov cycles I got so many symptoms (way more symptoms at once then I have had actually being pregnant), it was unreal. I had a cycle like yours once only I never got a blood test and so it was drawn out weeks longer. I was convinced I was pregnant b/c I had so many symptoms, but my tests were always negative and it was so confusing. I'm sorry you had to go through that b/c it stinks. Anyways, fluctuating hormones can cause a lot of "pregnancy" symptoms, and crazy hormones are part of the game when you are trying to ovulate but not quite making it.
With all that said, if your temps get higher I think there may be a chance you do O this cycle (or maybe you already did and AF will arrive soon). And heck, I hope I am dead wrong and you somehow have a late BFP coming!! If not, this crazy cycle is looking better then the last! Sometimes these things just happen. But I would keep an eye on it just in case

I really hope you get a BFP soon Alice, I really do!