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January 5th, 2009, 07:32 PM
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Today, I had to go back to work after a 2-week break.

My stomach flu moved down south and I suffered from high winds all day, if you know what I mean.

At the end of the day meeting, one of my coworkers told us she is pregnant.

Then as I was leaving work, a stupid lady turned left into me and CRUNCHED my brand new car.

So I spent an hour at the scene and 2 hours on the phone with insurance companies.

Then, when I called my long distance BFF to tell her about it, she told me that she was pregnant. After one month of trying.




I am happy for her, but I am also miserable and bitter and I want to crawl into a hole. I hate today.
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January 5th, 2009, 07:35 PM
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Ouch Kyle! That does suck!! I know there is nothing I can say - but that I completely agree- that you had an awful, awful day! I would probably crawl into bed crying!!! But- tomorrow can only get better, right?
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January 5th, 2009, 07:35 PM
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January 5th, 2009, 07:38 PM
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What a bad day! I'm so sorry Kyle, I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better!
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January 5th, 2009, 07:45 PM
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Ugh!!! That was a horrible day Kyle!!! Im so sorry!!!

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January 5th, 2009, 07:52 PM
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OMGGGG! Kyle you poor thing! What a nightmare of a day! I am so sorry! UGH and your new car too?! Oh I just hate this for you... crawl in bed and sleep it off! I'm so sorry! (((((((HUGEST HUGS EVER))))))
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January 5th, 2009, 07:57 PM
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Im so sorry Kyle!! What an awful day!!!! Im sending you tons of hugs!!
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January 5th, 2009, 08:10 PM
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I'm so sorry you had such a horrible day!! I'd feel like crawling into a hole too.
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January 5th, 2009, 08:19 PM
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Whoa, that is some serious Murphy's Law going on there. I'm so sorry Kyle, I'd want to crawl into bed and stay there too.

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January 6th, 2009, 12:08 AM
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not that I've had a loss, but I recall the "guilty envious" feelings when others found out they were preggy, it's natural and normal. I'm sorry for such a sucky day. I hope your tummy is more settled today at least.

((((((((((((((((((huggles)))))))))))))))))))))
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January 6th, 2009, 04:54 AM
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January 6th, 2009, 04:58 AM
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Sorry luv.
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January 6th, 2009, 05:06 AM
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You deserve lots of hugs!
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January 6th, 2009, 05:40 AM
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:cringe: I'm sorry Kyle, that really stinks. Car accidents are the WORST! And I can really sympathize about those guilty jealous feelings. When you really want it, it feels like everyone else has it. I feel that way every time my SIL texts me with "pregnancy updates".
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January 6th, 2009, 06:45 AM
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I'm so sorry Kyle!
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January 6th, 2009, 07:56 AM
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OMG, I'm so sorry. (((HUGS)))
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January 6th, 2009, 08:16 AM
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I'm sorry today sucks so bad!!! Lots of (((hugs))) for you!!
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January 6th, 2009, 10:57 AM
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It does sound like an awful day, I'm so sorry It could be that you will receive some unexpected brightness in your life soon
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January 6th, 2009, 03:23 PM
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I'm sorry Kyle. Your day definitely qualifies as craptastic. Huge hugs for you! I hope things turn around ASAP for you!!!
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January 6th, 2009, 03:52 PM
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Thanks for all the hugs. It really made me feel better just to vent and get all the support!

The thing that really helped me feel better today was talking to my sister. She and I don't always see eye to eye, but she knew what to say. She commiserated with me, then started talking about the big plans she has for my (eventual) baby shower. It gave me perspective, which allows me to have more happiness for my friend.

The car thing is still a pain in the butt, but life happens; what are you gonna do?
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