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February 9th, 2009, 07:57 AM
♥Ashley♥'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I used another FRER this morning 48hrs since my last one, and not only is it soooooo faint it is no darker than the last one. I know I shouldve just taken one test and it turned out positive and just left it at that, but I cant help it!! I need some encouragement, like anyones lines not get darker for a few days? Im so scared and this is killing me. I guess im just looking for someone to say it can still be okay and sometimes it can take longer than 48hrs for it to get darker but im afraid that isnt the case. Im 13DPO today it should be pretty dark I think. Im trying to ignore it and go on acting like I know everything is fine so that I dont stress myself out, but its hard!!!!

ETA: One good thing (i think) is my temp is really high today, alot higher than the day I tested even.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/207c7d
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February 9th, 2009, 08:00 AM
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hmm i would think that it might take longer than 13DPO to get a good dark line with some people. i am sure i've read about ppl who got a BFN at 13DPO when they were preggie. *hugs* and sticky dust for you sweetie!
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February 9th, 2009, 08:02 AM
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RELAX Ash!! Your pregnant. You need to enjoy it. Stressing about lines isnt going to do you or the baby any good. Everything is fine with your beanie!!
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February 9th, 2009, 08:03 AM
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I only tested once when I was pregnant. Don't test anymore. It's just going to stress you out and make you worry. I'm sure everything will work out. Hang in there.
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February 9th, 2009, 08:06 AM
♥Ashley♥'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Thanks girls. Im sorry for the annoying freak outs by me, life just isnt as easy as it used to be before having a m/c.
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)
Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN
Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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February 9th, 2009, 08:17 AM
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STOP POAS!!!! Depending on the tests it really doesn't get darker. Lets focus on the GREAT thing....THERE ARE TWO LINES!!!!!
My thailand test I could pee on while 2 months along and the same color as my 10DPO.
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February 9th, 2009, 08:25 AM
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It might take a few more days before it gets really dark. Remember that we all get different results with the lines. Hang in there!
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February 9th, 2009, 08:31 AM
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My line didn't get any darker til about 15 DPO. I even took pics, but haven't put them on the computer yet... Anyway, it got a little darker at that point and took til 20 DPO to match the control line (I only tested so many times because I had a bunch of cheapie internet tests and they were going to expire in 6 months, so I didn't want to waste them ).

Now no more POAS for you!
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February 9th, 2009, 09:00 AM
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DOn't worry Ashley... every one is different. Don't POAS anymore. Just be positive and know it will all work out as it should!!!

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February 9th, 2009, 09:14 AM
♥Ashley♥'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I just spoke with my Dr and she said quit taking pregnancy tests Ashley! I love my dr. so I will try and stop, and I made my first appt for March 5th the day before we leave for Florida!!
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)
Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN
Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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February 9th, 2009, 09:16 AM
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STEP AWAY FROM THE HPT!!! No more peeing on sticks!!!
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February 9th, 2009, 10:11 AM
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Don't think too much into it Ashley, you are pregnant!!! I know it's hard not to worry but it will only get easier soon! Do your best to stay away from the tests okay?!
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