[~*Bethy*~]

Told my sister (who is a few weeks pregnant, just found out herself last week) that we are TTC #3. She instantly thought "well people get the pregnant bug when they find out someone else is pregnant". True. But this has been on my mind for HOW LONG NOW?! waaaaay before she got pregnant! You girls can testify that!! So now she's harping on me "do you have the funds, the time, the recources to afford another one!?" (coming from a person who is about $20k in debt!) "I can barely afford my son as it is now we have the new one on the way" - well ya should of though about that before opening up your legs hu?? Im just so mad that she would just brush my feelings off like that!! She knows we are more finacially stable than her - I just thought she grew up after having Logan, aparently not....makes me mad that she thinks Im copying her!! I told her my plan with the M&M's that say "were pregnant" on them that Im going to give hubby and she instantly said "did you steal that idea from me???" and was PISSED that I even said that idea!! I didnt even know she HAD THE SAME IDEA!!! uhhg...I know I shouldnt care what she thinks, and honestly I dont - I just dont see how a person can even think that way!!! She is so above everyone else!!!!! I swear to god I bit my tongue and just simply said Ive thought everything through and its my desicion, my family and left it at that.

someone help me go squash her.....

~Beth

[chellerenee]

I'm sorry that she's acting the way she is. I know how it feels to have someone be so immature about things like this. God forbid the world doesn't revolve around them all the time, and you make a decision without thinking about them one bit! I wouldn't worry about what she says. You know what's right for your family and you have thought it through, so just go on with your life, and if she doesn't like it, too bad! Like you said, it's your family, and your life! Sorry, I have some personal experience with a situation like this, so it irritates me to hear about people being the same way! lol

[~*Bethy*~]

thanks Chelle It just amazes me how immature she can be!! not to mention she's almost 6 years older than I am....hmmmph...

~Beth

[Mod-LadyCoconut]

I'm sorry hon. That situation really sucks. I would be SO irritated. I guess just bite your tongue and don't share any ideas with her, ESPECIALLY names!

[~*Bethy*~]

nope with our last one no one will know the sex or names till he/she is born

~Beth

[Mars]

ITA with Michelle!!

[..Penelope..]

I would gladly help you squish her I hope you don't have to talk to/be around her too much. *HUGS*

[~*Bethy*~]

not too much except ya know family functions LOL and she wants me to do her maternity pictures which is fine with me since its for my portfolio.....

should we plan for tomorrow to squish her?

~Beth

[alicenwonderland]

Sounds like someone is a Pregasaurus Rex. (that's what I call my pregnant SIL )
When she turns her back, you whisper that to someone and then make your tallons and roar. It always makes me feel better!

[~*Bethy*~]

LOL Ill have to try that!!