Sorry! I forgot to answer you question in the last post. Yes, the Boudreax's butt paste is what I use mostly. It has not stained any of my prefolds, AIO's, covers, ect. I have had no issues with it what so ever. I never read that it's safe for cloth but from my use I have had no problems.
Oliver's hair started growing blonde almost right away. It looked like he needed a dye job for awhile.

Some of it did rub off. He got a flaky scalp and I picked at it a lot.

I ended up cutting off the dark front part after it grew out blonde. This was around Jan or Feb I believe. At first I missed the dark color but now I love my little blondie.