[bittersweet]

Why is it I was been regular and pattered for months, but as soon as we TTC, my body changes things.

Since I've come off BCP, my cycles have been 26-28 days with spotting/cramping for 1-2 days prior to AF starting. My LPs have been 11-13 days.

This is the first month we *could* have a slight chance. I think I'm about 14 DPO (which makes me 1 day late)....no spotting what so ever yet and very little, inconsistent cramping. If I had to guess what being pregnant feels like, I think I feel it. I'm quesy, hypermotile, tired, sore (well I guess it could be the flu also). But I've only seen glaring white BFNs on my tests.


Eventhough I got positive OPKs when I did, I suppose I could have ovulated later than I thought....but I highly doubt it was by more than a couple days off. The day I *think* I ovulated I also moved out of my apt...so I was stessing.

I just want to either get a BFP or AF NOW!! DH is coming to visit me in May. If AF comes today or tomorrow, I could have a chance in May. But if AF takes much longer than that, I'll be out for May already.

Anyone get BFNs at 13-14DPO and go on to get a BFP later?

(I hope by making this post looking for BFP reassurance, I can trick my friend Murphy and AF will show up!)

Geesh, now I know why TTC is so frusterating.

Edit: Ugh...I was going to take a picture of what I think is probably an EVAP and my camera wont turn on

[alicenwonderland]

I'm sorry Erin. Yeah... our bodies love to make us crazy. Fingers crossed for a late BFP! I know Lauren got hers late.... 18 dpo i think?

[Mars]

My body was doing everything right even for the 3 months after I came off the pill but once we decided to NTNP, it went all wacky and I stopped getting EWCM, etc.

As for late BFPs, I think Resi got a late one and I've read a few stories where persons got a positive at 16DPO and some never got a positive test until a blood test.

I hope that you will get a late BFP.

[Mars]

#@$!#%$%@ at JM!!

[Mars]

#@$!#%$%@ at JM!!

[Mod-LadyCoconut]

You think you've got an 'evap' eh?? You're so pregnant! I *really* hope you are... I need people to join me in Jan DDC like asap!

I know Lauren (Lalarose) got a reallllly late bfp... and I feel like Resi got hers at like 16dpo or something too. Did you test today? I see on your chart you had a BFFN yesterday, but not today at 14DPO.

All of your 'symptoms' sound about dead on to me! And I especially love the "my friend Murphy" references.

could be preggers! We need pics! Did you take a FRER?

And negative tests at 14 dpo are inconclusive is AF has not shown up!

[Mod-LadyCoconut]

I need girls in the Jan DDC!

I agree that we need pics..

[Mod-LadyCoconut]

Are you sure it's an evap and that you aren't just being in denial? Did it come up within the time frame? I thought you were testing on FRERs? Those aren't known for evaps!

[~Caroline~]

Hmm. I say your evap is a BFP and you really are preggo! Post a pic!!!

We need more info missy!!

[~*Bethy*~]

I want pictures!!!!!!! Although I think you already know the answer

~Beth

[midnight_starr]

Pictures

[bittersweet]

The FRER is white, no question about that. I am really fine about not being pregnant this month, but then where is AF??? I am just irriated to be in the middle zone. This is crappy. I'm not going to test again until the weekend.

[alicenwonderland]

Sorry for the BFN
it's possible that you're actual day of ovulation was a couple days after the pos opk. I know that's how it works for me. Will you be temping in the coming cycles?

[bittersweet]

Originally Posted by alicenwonderland

Sorry for the BFN
it's possible that you're actual day of ovulation was a couple days after the pos opk. I know that's how it works for me. Will you be temping in the coming cycles?

Its possible, I dont know for sure when/if I ovulated. But when I did temp, I would ovulate the day after the first positive OPK, and i get bad cramps. But like I mentioned, I could have been gearing up to ovulate, but the stress of moving might have delayed/hulted ovulation. That is the only other thing I can think of.