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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Washington
Posts: 2,563
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I tested this morning with FRER and it was a BFN!! I was kind of expecting it though...I guess!! I called my BFF last night and cried to her on the phone for an hour, thank goodness she is so good to me!! I feel so selfish for being so upset, I mean a friend of mine finds out today if she has lukemia or not, and Im fricking crying about not being knocked up, seriously...... 
Maybe it was just to early, I don't temp so I estimated my O date based on OPK's so I could only be 9dpo today, I also feel crampy today and did most of the day yesterday, im also more tired than usual, I think I am just grasping at straws now, I should cut my losses and move on!! If I don't end up pregnant this cycle DH will go for an S/A, which he really doesn't want to do, but we need to make sure it is not him contributing to our infertility at all!!
Thanks for checking up on me in the other thread, it is sweet to know you all care so much!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 5,177
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Awwww it is still early tho!!! I didnt get a + til 13 dpo!!!
Best wishes for your friend!!!
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There still hope sweetie, it could be still too early!! 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: St. Louis, MO
Posts: 14,102
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Sorry Morgan!! But its definitely still early even if you are 10dpo!
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage) Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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I'm sorry Morgan, and I'll keep your friend in my prayers. But, maybe it IS too early?? 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,199
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I'm really sorry to hear about your friend, best wishes! I hope everything turns out okay!
I'm sorry about your BFN. Perhaps it's too early?
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Washington
Posts: 2,563
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Thanks ladies!! I would give up a BFP if it meant my friend wasn't sick!! She has a 1 1/2 year old daughter and the only reason she found out she was sick is because about a month ago she lost her baby when she was 18 weeks pregnant. When they ran blood tests the found out there was something wrong with her bone marrow. It is either a bad virus or lukemia they think, either way she will most likely need a bone marrow transplant!!
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Mama To 3 Amazing Boys
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Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Just the other side of sane!
Posts: 7,140
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Morgs
Thanks ladies!! I would give up a BFP if it meant my friend wasn't sick!! She has a 1 1/2 year old daughter and the only reason she found out she was sick is because about a month ago she lost her baby when she was 18 weeks pregnant. When they ran blood tests the found out there was something wrong with her bone marrow. It is either a bad virus or lukemia they think, either way she will most likely need a bone marrow transplant!!
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OMGosh, how awful!!! My thoughts and prayers are with her. That's so sad!
Hang in there Sweetie, like everyone else said, it's probably still early. I wish I could wave a magic wand and make everyone pregnant (if they want to be)!!!  
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 8,090
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sorry morgan.. Crossing my fingers its too early.. I'll keep your friend in my thoughts!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 2,931
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Boo Morgs....but like the other girls have said it is very early...and without temps you are right - you could have your O day off. I'm still holding out hope for you.
Your friend is in my prayers....it amazing what kinds of things can put our own lives troubles into perspective....huh. HUGS!
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nakmaster
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Western NY
Posts: 8,401
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Thats still early! You are not out until the witch shows!!!! I've got my fingers super crossed for you.
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Aww, Morgan, I'm sorry. BFNs SUCK. Since you don't really know when you Oed though, it is possible that you are just too early still.
Lots of t&p for your friend. It sounds like she has been through a lot already Poor thing.
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Ian, Morgan and Isabella!
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Hillsboro, Oregon
Posts: 6,244
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i still think its early - fingers crossed!!
sending light and healing to your friend, for her sickness and her loss
~Beth
i still think its early - fingers crossed!!
sending light and healing to your friend, for her sickness and her loss
~Beth
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
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*huggles* I'm sorry Morgan. It's okay to feel sad about even if others have much bigger problems. A lot of us have been there and we know it gets depressing.
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I <3 my kids
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Inland Northwest
Posts: 7,769
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Quote:
Originally Posted by szczepanski
Thats still early! You are not out until the witch shows!!!! I've got my fingers super crossed for you.
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This is such a TRUE statement.. Stay positive!
Do you know how I found out I was pregnant? Let's just say, AF never showed up in January, I did many HPT in Janurary and they all came back negative.. Then I had a blood test done the first week of February and it came back negative for pregnancy, but AF never came in Febuary.. I swear I thought I was going through early menopause or something.. Then on March 2nd, I felt funny as if I was pregnant, I took a test and it was positive.. The Dr. are guessing I became pregnant the first week Febuary, by the baby's measurement at 8 weeks..
So there is always hope.. 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Rochester NY
Posts: 12,280
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Sorry for the bfn. I think you may have o'd later than you think. My chart is a perfect example. I had a pos opk 2 days ago, and I'm still having fertile cm and have yet to o. Give it a few more days. Af isn't here yet. I'll keep your friend in my thoughts.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Hawaii
Posts: 27,373
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i'm sorry, hon.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 4,116
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Even at 10dpo, its still very eary. Many women that are pregnant dont get a bfp that early.
And I'm very sorry about your friend
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Super Moderator
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Georgia
Posts: 33,081
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I was going to say the exact same thing as Erin. Even if you are 10DPO that's still pretty early for a  for a lot of women. I wouldn't get discouraged just yet.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 6,553
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I know everyone has already said it, but it's too early!!
I'm not trying to crush any hope, but you know what helps me cope better when AF shows (IF she shows for you this go round  )? I stopped paying any mind to every little symptom, it will drive you crazy! Or at least it drives me crazy. And you will build up your hope so much that way that it is just devistating if it doesn't happen, you know? I've gotten to where I don't even like to continue temping after I have a definite O. It makes the 2ww go by so much faster! I don't know... these are just some things that makes it a little easier for me.
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