So I'm seeing the new OB/GYN Monday. I'm not really sure how to go about this. This is my 1st appt with her, and the practice {all women}, since I decided to switch over the incorrect PCOS diagnosis. Also, the old OB/GYN doesn't take my new insurance.

So as far as TTC goes, I'm going in kind of "late in the game", but this Dr. may be the one who helps me finally conceive my baby. So, I'm sure I'll get the PAP, the ? if I want to be tested for STDs {Is it weird to say that I don't? I was only with one guy before Mike, I was Mike's first, and I have been tested since. I KNOW I'm OK {including H.I.V.} , but it doesn't hurt.. But is it a principle thing?}

Then, how do I say, "Here is my progesterone from last cycle, here is my chart, I know my progesterone is low, what can we do about that? Should we test for anything more??"

I'm just unsure.

[bittersweet]

If its covered by insurance, I would let them do STD testing. It just gives a more full picture for the Dr. They are the ones trying to give you the best care and they dont personally know you or Mike. It gives them automatic checks offs for things that *could* be causing difficulty TTC. But if you really dont want them done, I see it being a big issue either. But they will probably ask again....and again, later down the road.

As for what to ask. The Dr should have all your medical records already, no? Usually they will communicate with your previous Dr and get all your test results, med info, history and whatnot prior to walking in your room.

I would see what the Dr has to say first. They should bring up your progesterone. She will probably already have a plan all ready for you. And once she tells you what her plan is, then anything you think she hasnt addressed you can bring up. As for the charts, I would just hand them to her. Some Drs think they are helpful, some dont.

When is your appt? Good luck!

[**jessie**]

I agree with Erin. I would just go ahead and get the std tests done again (I did) if your insurance covers it. Even though you know that you are fine, sometimes it is a requirement to move onto certain procedures. I did decline the HIV test, as I haven't been with another man other than DH is eight years.

I wish you all the best with this new doctor. I hope she can help you and Mike get that bfp very quickly.

[midnight_starr]

I really don't have any advice I just want to wish you luck!!!

[~*Bethy*~]

Id say let the dr look over your file and see what she has as far as plans go. If it doesnt include progesterone, you can ask her if she plans on it. thats just my 2 cents - and if insurance covers it do the STD test just so its outta the way - good luck!!!

[Resi]

I never has been asked about getting tested for std's when going to a new doctor. Maybe because I have been married for several years? I just don't remember ever being asked that except when I went to planned parenthood years ago before I was married.

GL! I hope she can help you out and help you get pregnant.

[soImarriedAnerd]

I have never been asked really about STD testing for years--they just do it with the pap without asking.....I only know because of the bills and results sheets I get. I would get them if they did ask even though DH has been my only man in many years......I guess since every man I have been with has cheated on me I just get checked, I don't have an issues with them taking things from me-its the putting stuff in me medical stuff I tend to decline more.
I agree with the above---I know some doctors don't even look at the charts before someone new shows up and other read the whole thing----I think it says alot about the doctor. It would almost be a little test for me to just ask them what they thought of my chart and a plan of action. If they haven't even looked at it and start right then....would be a red flag for me. But let them do the talking first and then have your questions/concerns WRITTEN DOWN to ask (always write because I can't tell you how many people forget to ask something LOL).

[Mars]

I don't have any advice and don't know how things work in the US but I wanted to send you good luck wishes.