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June 21st, 2009, 11:04 PM
Nami's Avatar ♥ Mommy of three ♥
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Well, after getting my lovely BFN this morning I got a very depressing call. My operation that was in December got moved up to September. I can't be in first trimester or they will not do it and it's a must. Which means next cycle is my last try but, we'll be on vacation with the In-Laws and will not have our own room so no way to BD at all so this cycle was our last try. We now have to TTA until after October. And to make things worse, last night I talked to my mom, my brother's new girlfriend is pregnant.. you may think that's something I should be happy about but no.. My brother has two little girls already that he has not seen in years. He left the mothers after they had the baby, he's a no good drugdealer and does nothing to take care of his girls. He's the last person on earth that should have another kid. Seems like just about everyone right now is pregnant but me. And after 6months of trying(Though 4 of them months I didn't O) it just really hit me really hard hard.

Sorry for the rant.
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June 21st, 2009, 11:28 PM
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sweetie I am so sorry!
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June 22nd, 2009, 05:21 AM
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It's ok to rant. I'm sorry about the BFN and you having to push back TTC.
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June 22nd, 2009, 05:50 AM
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Im sorry
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Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN
Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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June 22nd, 2009, 08:50 AM
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I know what its like to have to keep putting TTC on the backburner - which is what were doing now for a few months *sigh* Im sorry about your brother, lets kick him, k?

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June 22nd, 2009, 12:58 PM
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We're going to try while on vacation but can only BD in the shower and might only get to once maybe twice so wont have much luck. Oh well, always next year.
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June 22nd, 2009, 03:37 PM
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Couldn't you sneak away? Maybe get a hotel room in the middle of the afternoon? Or tell them your tired and want a nap and ask them to take your DS with them out for awhile? I'm sure you can figure it out! GL!
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June 22nd, 2009, 06:19 PM
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Thats what the car is for!
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June 22nd, 2009, 11:34 PM
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Couldn't you sneak away? Maybe get a hotel room in the middle of the afternoon? Or tell them your tired and want a nap and ask them to take your DS with them out for awhile? I'm sure you can figure it out! GL!
My MIL is far to nosy for us to be able to sneak away, I could play sick a time or two and see if that works.

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Thats what the car is for!
We wont have a car, we're going my plane and they have shuttle vans that we'll take to go places.
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