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June 22nd, 2009, 04:51 PM
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I went to bed feeling great last night.. this morning I woke up and went to the bathroom and there was red blood. Chris called the dr and I went in for bloodwork. My beta was only 5.. I was 4w2d today. I had the worst morning. I have never been in more pain or more sick. I was vomitting and had the worst cramps, I was sweating and had the chills. I was in so much pain I was hyperventilating. My fingers and lips actually went numb.
After talking to the dr we are going to at least wait until my period comes next month. If it doesnt show up on its own I'll use the prometrium again. Once we are at that point we will decide if we are ready to try again. I know I cant blame myself, but I am going to take this time to get myself into the best possible health that I can, I cant help but thinking its my fault because I'm overweight.
July 18th will be 1 year since we started officially TTC and this has been the hardest day of that journey, for both Chris and I.
Thanks for all of the support you ladies have shown me.
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June 22nd, 2009, 04:52 PM
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Oh sweetie I am so sorry
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June 22nd, 2009, 04:54 PM
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Oh Kaleigh I am so very sorry. Take all the time you need to grieve and heal from this loss. I wish I could make it better for you guys.
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June 22nd, 2009, 04:58 PM
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Oh no Kaleigh! I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how hard this must be for both of you.
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June 22nd, 2009, 05:27 PM
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I'm so sorry honey. Don't blame yourself. There's a reason for this that isn't your fault. You will have your healthy sticky bean soon. Please believe that!
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June 22nd, 2009, 05:32 PM
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I am so very sorry. Take all the time you need. It's so very hard to go through. I am so sorry. I'll be thinking of you lots.
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June 22nd, 2009, 05:35 PM
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Oh Kaleigh I am so so sorry. No one should ever have to go through this - its the most demeaning and heartbreaking thing imaginable.

Please do not blame yourself. There is most likely nothing you could have done. I am so sorry for your loss.
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June 22nd, 2009, 05:58 PM
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i'm so sorry your going through this.
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June 22nd, 2009, 06:05 PM
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Oh I'm so sorry.. *HUGS*
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June 22nd, 2009, 06:11 PM
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I am so sorry Kaleigh
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June 22nd, 2009, 06:23 PM
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I am so sorry Kaleigh! Sending extra prayers!!
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June 22nd, 2009, 06:46 PM
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Oh no Kaleigh! I'm so so so sorry.
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June 22nd, 2009, 06:51 PM
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I'm so sorry Kaleigh. That must be devastating...
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June 22nd, 2009, 07:40 PM
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Kaleigh I'm so sorry you are going through this...... you are in my thoughts and prayers!!
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June 22nd, 2009, 07:55 PM
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I am so sorry Kaleigh!!
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June 22nd, 2009, 08:52 PM
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Kaleigh, I am so very sorry that you're going through this. PM me if you need anything.
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June 22nd, 2009, 08:59 PM
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Oh no Kaleigh I am so sorry (((HUGS)))
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June 22nd, 2009, 10:17 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss..
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June 22nd, 2009, 10:46 PM
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June 22nd, 2009, 11:02 PM
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