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June 22nd, 2009, 09:05 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: New York
Posts: 7,577
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Finally got to hear the heartbeat, it was 160bpm, the doctor says most people assume girl, but not to assume anything, lol. I have lost 1lb, haven't gained. I started out 20lbs more than I usually am, so maybe that's why. I eat a lot healthier than before too. And I got to schedule my gender ultrasound, for the week of july 13th! I'll be 18 weeks, so they should be able to tell. If not, I will pay for one of those 3d ultrasounds, as I kind of want one either way.
And the baby's dad is really getting on my last nerve. He's just so horrible to me, I don't think I want him at appointments. He was texting his girlfriend during the appt, AGAIN, and when I asked him why he did that, he said she was making sure I wasn't giving him a hard time. I flipped out on him. So he tells me he loves her, and was never attracted to me, so she had a right to text him and make sure I was not giving him a hard time. I said she had no right, and told him to F himself. I said a lot more, I was crying, and really upset. Not like me at all, but I am so hurt. He makes me feel so worthless. I've never had a guy treat me so badly. I told him he does nothing but hurt this baby, because all he does is hurt me. I don't think I want him coming to appt's, I still feel like he comes just to make his girlfriend jealous, and make me feel bad. He's a jerk. I still hope he comes around, but I don't have hope at this point. He's too immature, and it's even worse now that his girlfriend is just as immature. I feel a lot happier on my own, getting support from all of you and my friends.
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June 22nd, 2009, 09:11 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Georgia
Posts: 33,080
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Well it sounds like douche ex b/f aside your appointment went really well which is awesome! You'll find out the sex so soon! how exciting! I think it's probabaly time to cut this guy from coming to your appointments since you can hardly enjoy them with him there. I'm sorry!  
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June 22nd, 2009, 09:11 PM
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Screw him!! Dont you just love sperm donors? I stopped inviting mine to appts..he never came but Im sure if he did he would just annoy and hurt me too! Im sorry you have to deal with it sweetie. Honestly I think its easier when its like it from the start. I know our situations are different but if you ever need to talk Im here.
Glad you got her hear babes hb!! Thats always a comfort! Kennedis was always high so you never know. I used to say at all the appts before I knew that it was a girl, and my doc would say "it doesnt mean anything"
Are you hoping for another girl?
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June 22nd, 2009, 09:33 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Depends on the day....Earth :D
Posts: 28,954
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What an As@
Glad you had a good appointment otherwise and got to hear the heartbeat!!! 
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June 22nd, 2009, 10:42 PM
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Gah @ Ex. You, Else & baby beanie are better & happier without his "contribution". I'm so pleased the app went so well otherwise! I can't wait for your u/s!
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June 23rd, 2009, 05:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Barbados
Posts: 18,988
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I'm glad the appointment went well apart for the stupid jerk who happens to be the dad. I usually like for both parents to be involved with their child but he seems to be a negative influence and you really don't need that kind of negativity or stress. You baby feels what you feel, at least that's what I believe, so I think you should bump him off unless he can grow some balls and be a man!
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June 23rd, 2009, 07:05 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 8,090
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Ugh I hate that he is being an butt hole to you...
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Aimee wife to Jeremiah mommy to Adeline Louise
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June 23rd, 2009, 07:19 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 1,787
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I agree that you, Baby, and Elsa are all better off without him. Especially with him acting the way he is. But with that said.... YIPPEE for healthy happy heartbeats! 
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June 23rd, 2009, 07:21 AM
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Yeah F him. You are so right-- if he's not helping you, he's not supporting you, you DON'T need him-- except for that 17%. You, Elsa, and new baby deserve to be happy!
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June 23rd, 2009, 07:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Northwest, OH
Posts: 3,562
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I'm happy for you and healthy baby!
Too bad about your ex: definitely see if you can sever the ties now cause you don't need that emotional roller coaster. Idiot!!
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June 23rd, 2009, 11:51 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Pittsburgh PA
Posts: 10,350
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Forget that jerk! You are sooo much better than that! And I'm glad you have us to turn to! I can't wait to keep hearing more good news! I had a boy feeling for you but I'm usually wrong! YAY!
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Running for my health and sanity!
PR's: 5k-25:05 (old PR 25:10), 5M-45:03 (old PR - 47:22), 10k - 52:00 (approximate - training), HM-2:25:58 (ran a 2:17:36 during marathon), Full- 4:49:25 (old PR -5:49:40), 50k-7:05:56, 50M-13:31:14, 100k- 18:59:31 (old PR 20:56)
(All of these PR's are going down this season!)
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June 23rd, 2009, 12:30 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: NJ
Posts: 10,432
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What a jerk! I'd stop inviting him to appointments if it was me, you don't need that stress and disrespect at what's supposed to be one of the most special times of your life.
And Yay for a great heartbeat! My boys heartrates were always high and they're definitely all boy! I think its just that they were always really active in there.
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June 23rd, 2009, 02:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Rochester NY
Posts: 12,280
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Yay for hearing the heartbeat!
Yeah, he's a jerk. You're a strong woman, who doesn't need an a-hole like him to take care of you!
We'll be here for you!
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June 23rd, 2009, 03:17 PM
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Mamma to Mia
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Grimsby, England
Posts: 19,304
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stuff that pathetic exuse of a man!
you can do this without him!
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June 23rd, 2009, 04:07 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
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Glad baby is doing well. 
As for ex-bf, you don't need that stress or drama. I wouldn't let him come to anymore appts, at least not while he is seeing this crazy psycho chick.
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