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July 21st, 2009, 10:40 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: So. California
Posts: 12,651
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So tonight my friend calls me to tell me she just found out she's preggo. Normally I dont think I would have cared but she's my friend that I was pregnant with when I was carrying Cambria. She been talking about wanting another but there going through money problems right now so they decided to wait 6 months. Guess not...I guess Im just sad cause we were gonna have our next one together.  I know what your gonna say, "Get pregnant!" Were waiting. We have to, we want to buy a house and hopefully pay off DH's debt...I guess Im just sad cause we experienced the same things before
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July 22nd, 2009, 12:23 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Georgia
Posts: 5,830
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*hugs* I'm sorry hon, but the waiting will be worth it when you get that house and are done with the debt. Who knows, maybe when you are ready another friend will be preggo with you and you will get to experience everything together again 
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July 22nd, 2009, 05:30 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Indianapolis, IN
Posts: 14,576
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Aww.. I can understand being a little sad about it. When your ready to try again and get pregnant it will be exciting because it will be the right time for your family.
I always get a tiny bit jealous when I see someone pregnant or see a newborn. It makes me miss those days. Maybe the two of us will be pregnant together in year or two!
Oh.. and you want an October baby next, right?
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July 22nd, 2009, 05:52 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Barbados
Posts: 18,988
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(((HUGS))) I can understand what you're feeling but you're waiting for all the right reasons.
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July 22nd, 2009, 05:56 AM
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Lilyan's Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Georgia
Posts: 12,736
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I could completely understand! I would be a little upset myself.  You and DH sound like you have a good plan and it will pay off in the end.
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July 22nd, 2009, 06:13 AM
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Co-host of the May 09PR
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Maryland
Posts: 8,720
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I understand! A good friend of mine who lives in the midwest is being induced today! We were pregnant together and I'm a *tad* jealous of her labor day. I think I miss that most.
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July 22nd, 2009, 06:34 AM
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Super Moderator
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Georgia
Posts: 33,072
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Resi
Aww.. I can understand being a little sad about it. When your ready to try again and get pregnant it will be exciting because it will be the right time for your family.
I always get a tiny bit jealous when I see someone pregnant or see a newborn. It makes me miss those days. Maybe the two of us will be pregnant together in year or two!
Oh.. and you want an October baby next, right?
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Resi, I have to say that it warms my heart when I read your posts because when we were WTTC you were so "we're just having one" and now every time we post about it you come around a little closer to considering two. haha.
Amy - I think it's normal to feel a little left out/left behind in this situation because pregnancy has been your thing with her. But it sounds like you and David are waiting for great reasons! I'm sure it'll be hard and this feeling will come and go throughout her pregnancy, etc. but we're all here for you and totally understand if you want to vent
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July 22nd, 2009, 12:59 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Depends on the day....Earth :D
Posts: 28,954
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July 22nd, 2009, 03:49 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Earth
Posts: 6,570
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Your feeling are totally understandable! ((HUGSSSSSSS)) ((Little Landen hugs))
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July 22nd, 2009, 03:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 8,102
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*hugs*
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July 22nd, 2009, 04:01 PM
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Very normal to feel that way! I am not close to wanting another one yet, but I will be soooo tempted to start TTC as soon as my sister or one of my close friends (both are actively TTC) announce they are pregnant! Not because I'm jealous, just because I would love to experience it at the same time as them!
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July 22nd, 2009, 06:52 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Chicagoland
Posts: 5,117
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In a way, that is what drew me to JM in the first place. Feeling like I was in a different place, either behind or ahead of, my real life friends. I needed a community where there were others who were going through the same decisions and experiences at the same time.
I felt left behind by one friend who got pregnant when I was miscarrying. And I have another friend who I want to hurry up and get started on her second baby so that we can have these experiences closer together, if not in sync. In reality, your life and your friend's life have different paces and different milestones, which is ok. You may have another friend or family member who syncs up with you the next time. If not, there is always JM!!
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July 22nd, 2009, 08:58 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: So. California
Posts: 12,651
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Thank you everyone that means a lot!!! She told me today that she started feeling sick already...And yes Resi I really want a October baby!!! That's why I figured In January we will try. But I think were waiting till next January not this coming one. And Anglea the lil Landen hug's Melted my heart!!!!
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July 22nd, 2009, 10:08 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 5,177
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Just want to send some HUGS Amy :HUGS:
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July 23rd, 2009, 02:10 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: New York
Posts: 7,577
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Maybe when she has her third! I was sad because my cousin and I were pregnant together when we had our daughters, and I went through a lot of sadness when she had baby #2, and was experiencing different things with two while I still had 1. Well, now we are pregnant together again, she's due in january with baby #3! Plus, you can think, when I'm pregnant next time she'll have an older child and probably be loving you having a new baby. 
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