Thanks girls!
Ashley, here comes the novel

...
We've always wanted a large family we just didn't know how long it would take to do it or if we even could due to finances. He's definitely on board for a 3rd and 4th baby

I really want to TTC next August but because he'll most likely be working 2 jobs I'd hate to have the kids never see him. The only reason we keep going back and forth on the idea is he's only home 2 hours a day right now working 1 job because of how far away from home his job is so I basically raise our kids alone all night and day already. When we move within this next year, even if he worked 2 jobs, he'd see them in the morning, 2 evenings a week, and 1 day off a week because we'd live closer to both jobs and that would only be fore 6 months or so. It's about the quality of time spent, not quantity. Our kids aren't the ones that are expensive at all. It's this stupid car that his parents bought Andy when he was 17 and the payment is 400 freakin dollars a month on top of a zillion other bills. We still have a few years left! The baby wouldn't be born until April 2011 and that's IF we get pregnant right away. I have my ticker set to TTC in 2011 instead of 2010 but as we get closer to July 2010 I'll know how things are, if Andy still likes the idea, and if I'm up to it... ahh I hate this not knowing stuff!