Like I havent been through enough with her friggin son I find out this morning since the end of July she has a kept a VERY PUBLIC blog about me! Telling about Brandon and mine relationship from the very start when she met me! Its all from her point of view, and she doesnt even know HALF of what went on between ME AND BRANDON!! Im soooo peed off!!

And she thinks that she should be invited to the hospital to see HER grandaughter or invited to MY HOUSE to see her!? F*** NO not after you talk all your s*** about me!!

Like seriously what have I done so wrong to them?! Carry this baby for nine months and not ask for a dang thing from them!! Im so mad right now but I know Im just gonna break down and be bawling soon enough. It just hurts that she would do this. When I havent done ANYTHING to her!! I invited her to ALL my appts just like I did Brandon so that she could feel like she was apart of the pregnancy but just like her immature son she couldnt be bothered. She never even called me once this entire pregnancy! Come on and she calls me immature!! Im not the one bloggin about her!! Im printing it all out and its coming to court with me, cuz I know shes taken me to court.

She even had the nerve to call me an unfit mother!! ***!

Maybe this will stress me out so much that I will go into labor!! That would be the only good that would come of this blog!

Wow....I am so sorry that you have to deal with this right now. Its the last thing you should be worried about You've done a great job, and although you'll probably have to deal with some speedbumps along the way, all that matters is you and Kennedi You don't need jerk "family" like that.

[~*sierra*~]

O-M-G!!!!!!! print it off and write her off!! what a mental case!

did i tell u that my SIL's sd's name is also brandon and he has a whack job mom too? coinkydinky eh, i think i forgot to tell u that before.

[♥Ashley♥]

Ummm...WOW. This is a grown woman? How immature. I totally agree, you should print it out that is a very good idea it will definitely come in handy! What a b!!

[Trannyfromtheuk]

What an immature woman!

Sounds like your gonna be so much better off without these people in your life!

[freesiangel]

That really sucks! I'm sorry you have to go through this... VERY smart to print it all off for court, though!

[CandaceDianne]

I am really sorry you are having to deal with this, especially DURING your pregnancy.
When you deliver Kennedi, can you have the hospital refuse to give out info about you? I am not sure if you have ever brought that up (I have not been able to catch up on all the threads). I would just hate for them to somehow ruin that special moment and day for you.

Well I finally finished what she has written so far. She talks about how she hopes that I have a hard very painful labor but that baby girl isnt in distress from it, or how Brandons going to get custody and his girlfriend is going to be a better mother than I could ever be! See I kinda had a feeling Brandon was just trying to get me to sign that paper cuz he thinks Im stupid and then hell have join custody well Im NOT stupid. I cant wait for him to text me about that dang paper. Im not gonna let the blog get to me though she even says that she hopes Im reading it and that it bothers me. So now Im really trying to not let it bother me.

But it does. Cuz shes talking all this s*** and everyone is OMG this girl is crazy and insane when Im NOT like that!! Shes twisting everything around. Putting words in me AND my moms mouths. I mean come on shes friggin 50 years old GROW THE F*** UP! Now I see where Brandon gets it.

She even has the nerve to say that their coming to the hospital but that Brandon wont come to my room to see the baby only to the nursery. Which is funny bc the only people allowed in the nursery are the 2 people with bracelets. Which will be me and MY MOM not Brandon so he cant see her in the nursery if he does want to meet his daughter he has to come to my room. Boy Im sure thats not going to happen. And too bad Brandons mom is NOT allowed what so ever up at the hosptial. In order for HER to see Kennedi shes going to HAVE to go to court. Im not being nice to her after this BS! She even says how shes going to come to the hosue to see Kennedi and she doesnt care if we call the cops.

That kinda makes me nervous cuz Im going to alone at some point. My mom works crazy hours..boy oh boy am I gonna be having lots of fun once Kennedi comes. Its a shame that their gonna make this so ugly.

I mean seriously what have I done that was so wrong to them? She had the nerve to say that I only used him for his sperm. F**** that if that was true and I just wanted a baby, I could have choosen anyone else and they would have been MUCH Better fathers! I actually love Brandon. Yes love. I still love him. Even after all this BS I still cry cuz I would love to be with him and be happy with him. I miss what we used to be. I would NEVER EVER get back with him but I do still love him, I struggle to get over him. I wish it was easy but its even harder when your carrying his baby. Horomones and what not. Esp at the end I feel like I could cry over just about anything at this point, well cuz I can.

I really do wish I could say to them that I cheated on him and that Kennedi isnt his..but thats not true and a simple blood test would show that. Dang it would make everything so much simpler.

[HopeWishWait]

Nikki I am SO so sorry that you are going through all this BS. You don't deserve it! I almost wish Nic had gotten stationed up in New York, I'd totally come and help you out.

You will be a FANTASTIC mother to Kennedi and she is so blessed to have you as her mommy. Forget him and his whack job of a mother, you know who you are and you know how to raise your daughter. Who needs em anyway?

[Resi]

If it was me I would put a restraining order against them both. Do you have a lawyer yet? I think it's bs that you have to go through all of this when you are about to give birth. I would not be calling them when she is born because they never cared enough to call you when pregnant. I might sound harsh but those are my thoughts.

[Mars]

You DON"T deserve this. If I were you, I'd keep a copy of everything. Might come in handy if you have to go to court. I would also text Brandon his mom's blog when he tries to ask about anything.

Also, be careful with what you text in case he may try to use this in court. Keep all your texts as well. If anything comes up, you will have your "evidence". Then you can let the court know the amount of stress they put you under during your pregnancy!

The apple sure doesn't fall far from the tree!!

[Oriyan]

Nikki -- I used to be a matrimonial/Family Law paralegal -- PM me if you need advice or have any questions about the laws. I can point you in the right direction for possible free legal council in your county (New York courts can be a big hassle sometimes, but they ALWAYS favor the mom) and yes, get a restraining order on both of them -- like yesterday. You can petition to the court for an emergency petition -- you feel yourself and your unborn daughter are in danger because of her nasty blog posting and you feel Brandon/MIL could either hurt the baby or try and take it.

My first advice to you -- Print out that ENTIRE blog. The judge will like to see it. Save those texts from Brandon -- Judge will like to see them, too. Third -- Get rid of all public posts/blogs about MIL/Brandon -- Move them to private forum.

[ChicaChels]

i hate them both. HATE them. You already know this though. I am texting you now.

<<HUGS>>

Sounds like my psycho ex neighbor!!! I hate this for you two and those people are DIRT!

[*krista*]

Oh Nikki. This just breaks my heart for you. This must be so difficult having conflicting feeling like you do and having to put up with so much at the same time. I just wish everyone would relax, if at least for Kennedi's sake.

[thepinkleprechaun]

Definitely make sure the nurses know when you go to the hospital that neither of those whackos are allowed to go anywhere near you or your baby!!!!!

I certainly hope he doesn't end up getting joint custody, I would hate for the baby to have to spend time with him and his crazy azz mom

[LaLaRose3]

I agree with Sam- print EVERYTHING out, save EVERYTHING, keep a journal about phone calls if you can, and take all things brandon/mil related off your blog. Also make sure to tell the hossy to NOT give info out on you or babygirl.

You will get through this. Get a lawyer and be the bigger/better person like we all know you are. Screw that woman- she doesn't know you and she has no sense. Don't let her get to you.

[Erinmarie83]

I just came across this post randomly, but WOW...you have ALOT of crap to deal with durign this time.

You REALLY need to get a lawyer like ASAP. If he already has one you dont want to be caught off guard if you get served with papers. Get a restraining order like everyone else said and print out all the blog material and any other stuff you can.

As far as the hospital stay goes...if you dont want them in the room they wont be allowed. Hospitals have very strict rules about who goes in and out of the maternity ward so I wouldnt think you would have any issues. Just make sure the staff knows ahead of time who shouldnt be allowed.

The "after" part is tricky because if this woman harrasses you at your home it may make you a prisoner in your own home. This is why you need a restraining order.

I wish you the best dear!

[**Jenn**]

Originally Posted by LaLaRose3

I agree with Sam- print EVERYTHING out, save EVERYTHING, keep a journal about phone calls if you can, and take all things brandon/mil related off your blog. Also make sure to tell the hossy to NOT give info out on you or babygirl.

You will get through this. Get a lawyer and be the bigger/better person like we all know you are. Screw that woman- she doesn't know you and she has no sense. Don't let her get to you.

Took the words right out of my mouth! You definitely don't deserve all this crap you're being put through. Big huge *HUGS* to you! And I'm sure you're going to have a great labor!

[alicenwonderland]

ugh absolute craziness! I'm sorry you have to deal with this nikki