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September 3rd, 2009, 06:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Indianapolis, IN
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getting your tubes tied or DH getting the snip snip? I'm curious to know if either one of you will do this after you are done with having kids?
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September 3rd, 2009, 07:32 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Louisiana
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DH and I have decided that he will get the snip snip after our 3rd child!
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September 3rd, 2009, 07:43 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Southern Germany
Posts: 4,229
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Haven't put much thought into it at this point, as we are just starting our family. I guess I don't like the permanence of it. Plus, we don't have a set number of children in mind.
I will probably get a copper IUD (no hormones) after I think we are done with babies. It's good for 10 years and if we don't change our minds in that time, I would consider a more permanent surgical option.
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September 3rd, 2009, 08:10 AM
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Objection!!!
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Toronto, ON
Posts: 11,769
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DH is getting snipped. We've already talked about it. 
Last edited by LadyGamer; September 3rd, 2009 at 08:24 AM.
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September 3rd, 2009, 08:33 AM
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Seamus and Kieran's Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: North Idaho
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I was going to get my tubes tied but dh talked me out of it. Since, if I do have another they will be in there anyway since have to have another c-section(sucks but i guess at least I had one vaginal birth) I will get them tied. If in a couple years we do decide 100% that we are done then dh will get snipped
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September 3rd, 2009, 08:35 AM
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♥ Mommy of three ♥
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Europe
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We're just going to use NFP(BOM), so no tubes being tied or anything getting snipped.
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September 3rd, 2009, 08:57 AM
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No, I don't think we will do anything that permanent. We're both okay with condoms and/or pull out. Unless we get pregnant with triplets next time, I don't ever see there being a time where it would be TERRIBLE to have another baby  That being said, we only want 2, maaaaaybe 3.
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September 3rd, 2009, 09:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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neither of us will have anything done i dont think. i certainly am not having any operations, and i guess its up to my dh if he wants to get snipped, we havent really talked about it but my guess is he wouldnt wanna get snipped
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September 3rd, 2009, 09:32 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Indianapolis, IN
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Bre+Will=Reid
No, I don't think we will do anything that permanent. We're both okay with condoms and/or pull out. Unless we get pregnant with triplets next time, I don't ever see there being a time where it would be TERRIBLE to have another baby That being said, we only want 2, maaaaaybe 3. |
I'm the same way! DH would never agree to getting snipped. I thought about getting the surgery but I don't like the thought of doing something like that to my body. I would welcome any baby to come along at any age. I think we will be good with 2... and if 3 happened I would be fine with it. At this point I feel like I'm always going to have baby fever! I have come along way from wanting 0 to 1 to 2.
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September 3rd, 2009, 10:29 AM
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broken.
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Georgia
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uhm. at this point, we'll just stay as we are, lol, unless by some miracle things change. I'll actually have a hysterectomy when we are sure we are done due to endo, most likely.
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September 3rd, 2009, 10:38 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 2,931
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You know my answer to this one! Getting snipped for DH was much cheaper and easier than anything that I would have had done and much cheaper and easier than condoms, pills, etc. He's already feeling much better and it was just Tues. morning he had it done. I don't trust NFP and I feel I owe it to the children I have to not have anymore kids. Kids take time and money and at this point we feel we're in a perfect balance with that and the three we have to ensure they have happy and healthy lives!
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September 3rd, 2009, 10:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
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I am pretty sure Dh will get snipped once we are 100% sure we are done. It's much easier to get the guy "done". If I am pushing babies out my whooha the least he can do is get a little snippety snip.
That said one of his co-workers was talking about sex not being as good after the big V. He didn't really elaborate on why (something about the O being a letdown?) but I was like argh! He shouldn't have said anything to my Dh!
I think it will work out well this way...Dh only wants 2 whereas I think I might want 3. If birth control is up to him it might not happen in a timely fashion after our 2nd child and we might end up with a 3rd because of it.
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September 3rd, 2009, 11:56 AM
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Co-host of the May 09PR
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Location: Maryland
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My thinking may totally change 10+ yrs from now. But I will not get my tubes tied. The talk of a VS has never come up with DH. Other than his dad got one and it didn't work. Along came baby number 6. 
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September 3rd, 2009, 12:44 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 3,018
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DH is getting snipped after #3.
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September 3rd, 2009, 12:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Western Illinois
Posts: 3,075
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We haven't talked about this yet since we're just starting out, but if either of us got something done it would be him. There's no way I'd put myself through a surgery like that... If he doesn't want to get a V then I would never force him, we'd just find another form of birth control (that doesn't involve me being on hormones).
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September 3rd, 2009, 01:01 PM
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♥ Melissa ♥
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 39,244
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As of now, I'd like to just use the pnp or the calendar method.
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September 3rd, 2009, 01:13 PM
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Platinum Superdupermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Long Island, New York
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Depends on if my periods get painful again.... if they do (so far my PP period has been a breeze! No pain!) once we are done I will most likely get a complete hysterectomy. All the women on my moms side (except my mom) had to have one because of issues of some sort. If everything is ok -- well then nothing has to get done since DH has barely any sperm.
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September 3rd, 2009, 02:07 PM
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Seamus and Kieran's Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: North Idaho
Posts: 29,910
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ShannonMVT
It's much easier to get the guy "done".
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Unless your already having a c-section they're already in there so its easier to do a woman then. If I were to have the chance of a vbac then dh would be getting snipped but since I dont(unless we move or dh's work insurance somehow gets super cheap  then I have to have a c-section)
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Mom to Seamus (7.18.06) and Kieran 4.8.09). Seamus has Aspergers, SPD, Lazy Eye and is also Color Deficient/Blind, basically he doesnt' see green or red. I'm still learning more but feel free to ask me about it if you have any questions!
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September 3rd, 2009, 03:14 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Rochester NY
Posts: 12,280
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Dh is willing to get snipped when we're done. However, our philosophy has changed a bit since we miscarried, and we might not do anything permanent.
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September 3rd, 2009, 03:34 PM
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<-- Just do it.
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: The Tar Heel State
Posts: 6,308
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Lee will be getting the big "V" - but not until we are at a smaller base so he can get a referral to a civilian.
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