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September 6th, 2009, 12:23 AM
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We came home thursday from the hospital and its been well rather interesting. Im getting spinal headaches daily, their not bad though. I mean they could be WAYYYYYYY worse. I get one once a day and depending on when I start to treat it, it generally lasts a couple hours. And where I got my epi Im having back problems. Like when I get the spinal headache if I try and stand at certain times I cant straighten my back completely cuz it hurts so bad..I will never again get an epi. I didnt want it to begin with and struggled with getting it and now Im left with this crap. Oh well.

The Chunk is amazing!! She started off bfing like a friggin champ the LC in the hospital actually said she was the "poster child" for bfing..then she went for her hearing test before we left..and they gave her a bink! She was ok but then all she wanted to do was suck. So I made the mistake of giving her the bink whenever she wasnt hungry, and the day we came home from the hospital she completely would not latch all day long. She went from noon to 7pm without eating, and she really didnt even care that she didnt eat. Finally I pumped and gave her a bottle. I was really upset, I figured bfing was gone. That I was just gonna be pumping and her getting bottles. I did that all night long thursday night every 2 hours pump and give her a bottle. Friday I had my LC come over and help and OMG shes back on track!! The girl is such a fast learner. She hasnt had a bottle since friday morning at 6am and she hasnt had the bink back since friday morning either. And hopefully it will stay that way, well actually it will. I learned my lesson.

But she is sucha good girl!! She only cries if her dipe is messie or shes hungry! And shes sleeping AMAZINGLY at night *knocks on wood* I put her to bed at 10pm and its now 3am!! Shes still not even up, Im just so used to not getting any sleep at night! I made the mistake yesterday of waking her up to feed and I will never again do that, she was up all night long. So now I just go to sleep with her and wait for her to wake me up.

But life is amazing wtih her. Brandon seen her at the hospital. He came up with his mom for 5 minutes. We called him the 2nd around 5pm and his phone was off!! I was almost a week late and you have your phone off?! So my mom left a message saying that I had Kennedi and that they were welcome to come see her..dont they just show up 40 minutes later! Dont even call and let us know or even knock on my door just walk into MY hospital room like nothing. Then mama complained on her blog how we waited a full day before calling them, ummm I had problems going on wasnt like I had an easy peeasy 5 hour non complicated delivery but I didnt tell them.

Anywhoo he held her, didnt say anything to me or anyone else. Didnt even say anything to Kennedi when he held her. Just stared at her! He didnt even tell her how beautiful she is!! Then he texted me friday asking how "HIS" baby was!! EXCUSE ME?! Omg that made me soooo mad, Im the one doing everything and he has the nerve to ask how HIS baby is! And then doesnt even ask to see her..whateve just more Kennedi and me time then!!

So were doing good Im just sore and having some problems but Kennedi is a god send and I couldnt ask for a better baby. I will upload pics, right now my sister is sleeping down here and I cant get the camera card but I promise I will be back with pics!! Cuz I just have to show her off!!
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September 6th, 2009, 01:47 AM
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glad to hear all is well and that she's a BFing champ! lo

*** is Brandon's problem?? He makes me so mad for you. But really it's his loss...Seems to me, all guys with that name are jerks.

Can't wait to see more pics! I love the one in your siggie. she's so adorable!
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September 6th, 2009, 02:48 AM
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Great update .... sorry you are suffering with headaches and back pain

Glad Kennedi is feeding like a champ !!
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September 6th, 2009, 03:46 AM
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glad she is back to breastfeeding!!

Sorry your ex is being such a douche!
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September 6th, 2009, 04:29 AM
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YAY for easy BF!!!
I'm so sorry Brandon's being a butt. I want to smack him for you!
I know the spinal head ache VERY well... I got the epi and it didn't even work anyway but walked around for 5 days in AGONY trying to take care of an infant. I'll NEVER get another epi in my life!
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September 6th, 2009, 06:42 AM
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ughh Brandon makes me cringe...

Glad BF is back on track!! Can't wait for more pics!!!!
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September 6th, 2009, 06:55 AM
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Way to go with the breastfeeding! It sounds like you're doing well despite some of the problems. Enjoy this time with her because I always hear the BTDT moms saying that they wish they could go back to these newborn days.
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September 6th, 2009, 07:29 AM
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Awwww I'm glad everything is going so well! I can't wait to see more pics, she is so darn cute! You should be very proud (I'm sure you are). Enjoy your little one!!!
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September 6th, 2009, 07:39 AM
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Congratulations! I'm glad to hear that breast feeding is going so well.. You need to post more pictures of your cute little monkey..

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I always hear the BTDT moms saying that they wish they could go back to these newborn days.
so true.. lol I miss those days where they would just lay around and do nothing.. Now with a 23 month old, it go go go go..
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September 6th, 2009, 08:04 AM
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Awww Nikki! Sounds like she is doing just great!! And as long as it's not a ridiculous amount of time between nursings... never wake her up at night I did the same as you on my first few nights and like Kennedi, Kirsty was awake for hours.

I quickly figured... if she was hungry, she would soon wake up and shout mummy! I'm so glad you managed to get BFing back on track. Did the nurses even ask you if they could give her a dummy?! I wouldn't have imagined they would do that without permission for BFing reasons. How rude!
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September 6th, 2009, 10:25 AM
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So glad to hear that minus the Brandon issues everything is going well. I just cant get over how much hair she has.
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September 6th, 2009, 10:44 AM
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I am so glad to hear you and Kennedi are doing well!

Remember -- Tuck pads are your friend!

Take Tylenol for your back. It'll help take the edge off the pain. I had about 2 spinal headaches a month after my epi and thats also when my back started hurting. My back actually hurts daily now. I too will NEVER get an epi again (so long as i am not having horrible back labor).

As for Brandumb... yeah. He and his mother can... you know where i am going with that lol.
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September 6th, 2009, 11:10 AM
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She is so beautiful! I cannot get over it!!! Post more pictures soon PLEASE!!

And as for Brandon, you know exactly what I think about that butthole. If I lived closer I swear I would beat that mf-er down, LOL! Actually, I will just get in the car now and be there in a few hours!

Congratulations again honey. She is perfect!
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September 6th, 2009, 12:09 PM
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Aw, I'm so happy to hear an update! We want to see more pictures!!! Ella was the same way, she rarely cried when she was a newborn. I'm glad to hear breastfeeding is going better! Enjoy her- it goes by way too fast!!
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September 6th, 2009, 12:31 PM
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I am glad she is BFing like a champ!! YAH!! As far as her sperm donor (sorry if thats a little harsh), HIS loss! I am glad you and kennedi are having plenty of bonding time!! I cant wait to see more pics of the chunky monkey!
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September 6th, 2009, 11:30 PM
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So glad Kennedi is doing well! Love the pic in your siggy!
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September 7th, 2009, 05:59 AM
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I'm glad Kennedi is doing well and you're recovering well. Ugh to the back aches and headaches though. As for Brandon, he's such a jerk!!! Enjoy your daughter and don't let him or his $@#$! mom get to you!!
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September 7th, 2009, 02:27 PM
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Glad to hear you girls are doing well.. Noooooooooooooooooo comment on the SD
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September 7th, 2009, 05:42 PM
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I'm so glad things are going okay and hope your back gets better soon!
That's so great she is back on track with BFing! You are doing a great job.
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September 7th, 2009, 08:12 PM
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Thanks for updating! I'm sure it'll get better.
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