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September 29th, 2009, 10:15 AM
♥Ashley♥'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Hey guys!! Oh my I have missed you all SO much! I cannot log on to JM from home so I had to wait it out until I got back to work! I feel SOOOO out of the loop, please give me any updates on you all that you can! Im warning you ahead of time that this will most likely be very long!

Anywho, our wedding was AMAZING absolutely the best day of our entire lives. And as I was told a million times that it would, it FLEW by way too fast! I have said to Jason so many times that I want to go back to that day! It was just the most amazing day of my life, I cant even explain it! Oh and those of you who know how many dang people were invited to the wedding, I was sooooo pleased when only like 75 showed up to the wedding part, it made it so much nicer and intimate.

The rehearsal/rehearsal dinner was so much fun! The rehearsal lasted for like an hour and a half! Which is really long! We just had so much fun I think thats why it took so long, and we had my step dad who was going to be playing live music on the acoustic guitar so we wanted to get all the timing worked out perfectly. Then we all met at dinner at a nice, but laid back italian restaurant where we ate out on the deck because the weather was amazing! Heres a couple pictures I only got a few of that night My sister has a ton more but she hasnt uploaded them yet.
Me and my groom!

Me and my best friend Ashley, who was a bridesmaid


Then after dinner, I dropped Jason off at his parents house and Ashley came and spent the night with me so I wouldnt be all alone in our house! I guess I was soooo exhausted from all the things I had done that day and stressing...etc because I fell asleep almost as soon as we got home! That was a good thing though because I would need all the sleep I could get for the next day! I woke up at 6:30 the next day and I was sooo nauseous! I dont know why though, I wasnt nervous or anything maybe just the excitement that that day I had waited so long for was finally here! It was the most amazing feeling all you married ladies probably know what im talking about! So we went to our hair appointment at 8am and I started getting so excited! lol I was soooooo calm though, somehow! I think I realized theres no need to stress or anything anymore, it was all out of my hands at this point and I just wanted to sit back and take in every moment. Then me, my sis, and two bridesmaids where done by 10:00 and we had to get back to my house for my makeup appointment...so the other two girls who werent done yet had to stay and get their hair done and meet up with us later. I got my makeup airbrushed on which was the BEST decision, I was debating doing it myself or getting it done for the longest time but airbrush makeup looks amazing and it lasted ALL day and stayed exactly how it was when she put it on until 3am that night! (well technically next morning!) Then I had to do 2 of my bridesmaids makeup! lol They like how I do eyeshadow apparantly. I didnt know if I'd have time to do it or if i'd be too stressed, but like I said I was so calm and actually had time so I said what the heck!

Then we packed up and left my house at 12:00 for the ceremony (the church is at least 45 minutes away in no traffic so thats why we had to leave so early, wedding was at 2pm) It was so fun driving there, everyone saw me with my veil and they were honking and smiling it was so funny and we stopped for a soda and the people were so nice, it just made the day that much more special. So we got to the church at about 12:55 and after unloading the car and taking a look at the church all decorated (which my grandma did an amazing job setting up and taking down everything for me, it looked just how I pictures it!!) it was time to start getting the bridesmaids dressed then me!!! I sent a bridesmaid to give Jason his card I got for him, and she brought one back for me from him, that was the first time I cried that day!! The card was soooooo sweet. Then I got dressed which required alot of help! My mom was crying, Jasons mom was crying, my friends & sister were crying...etc. Then some pictures and it was ALMOST time. I remember exactly it was 1:55 and i was freaking out!! I kept trying to peek out the door but no one would let me! Then the music started for the grandparents and parents to walk out and I started bawling, the girls were peeking out the door at what was going on, and when they told me that it was jason walking his mom down the aisle now, and he was really crying I started crying bad! I couldnt stop!!! Just to hear that music playing that we planned for our wedding and to have all the things we planned on actually happening NOW was the most amazing feeling. That song was Keith Urban "Only you can love me this way" and we picked it because it was so perfect for us and now it means even more to us, I cant even hear it without crying! (Okay, im at work right now and i listen to the radio on my computer and "only you can love me this way" just came on and im crying! ) Then it was Keith Urban "I wanna be your everything" for the bridesmaids...I cant even explain how I felt when that song ended and i knew it was my turn!!!!! So the curtains closed, and my song (canon in D on acoustic guitar which was BEAUTIFUL) started I literally cannot explain how I felt so I wont even try. The curtains opened and i saw my groom and we just locked eyes the entire time I walked down the aisle. He looked SOOOO handsome, I said that to him a million times that day! It was so cute he was like "your dress is BEAUTIFUL babe" and he stressed the beautiful, he is so picky with wedding dresses so i started to think he wouldnt like it but he loved it. Jason cried the entire time I walked down the aisle and all throughout the ceremony it was sooo touching. Even now people are like "I couldnt even LOOK at Jason without tearing up!" even like his really manly guy friends! We did the hand ceremony which I dont know if you all know what that is but it was SO beautiful, thats when I started crying. It was PERFECT. Not one thing went wrong that day I have to add, I cant believe it my friend Ashley kept saying how that never happens! Nothing went wrong, and everyone had such a great time! She said it was the wedding of the century! Riiiiiiight....

I couldnt believe it when we were pronounced husband and wife! I've waited my whole life to get married...to know who the man will be that ill spend the rest of my life with, and here I am..it is Jason and he is the most wonderful man and I am so lucky that it is him that I got to marry that day. As my mom says "I can know I will always be taken care of with Jason by my side, in every way possible" and that doesnt mean like financially or anything but he'll do everything in his power to make sure I am happy everyday of my life, as I will for him too.

We took a few pics at the church, then got on our party/limo bus to go to a pretty park to take more pics before the reception. That was SO fun! Then we got to the reception, and we chose a "fun" song to be announced to it was The Black eyed peas "Ive got a feeling that tonights gonna be a good night" it was sooooooo fun I laugh just thinking about it, we actually got everyone to dance in when they were announced, and then Jason and I did too! It was so funny! Then the toasts, first dances, and cutting the cake! Our first dance was so amazing. My sister's speech literally had everyone in the place crying! lol It was soooo special and written so perfectly it was beautiful. The best mans speech was HILARIOUS, so it was a good mixture of crying and laughing!! Our photobooth and candy bar were a HIT!!!!!! People were talking about them all night! Were getting a cd with the photobooth pics soon, so ill share those when i get them! I dont know if you all remember but I was pretty sad that jason didnt want to get a hotel, but it actually was a good decision, we didnt get home till about 1 and then didnt go to bed till about 3 then had to be up at 7 so it wouldve been such a waste of money! Jason did surprise me with a bubble bath and candles and it was soooo romantic anyways!! We left at 11 for our honeymoon which was AMAZING...but ill make that a different post when I get those pics on the computer!

Oh, and were ntnp...

Onto the pics!!! If your on facebook, youve probably already seen these! Sorry!
Getting my hair done

Putting the veil on!

Just got done reading the card from Jason

Getting dressed, sis helping me put the garter on!

Grandma putting my papa's penny in my shoe...he was always gonna be the one to walk me down the aisle but he passed away in 2003

Me and one of my best friends Ashley

Me and my sister (maid of honor)

My mom, me, and sis

Me and jasons mom

Sis retouching my lipstick! (You can tell shes a mommy look at her mouth, she looks like shes feeding me baby food! )

Jason walking his mom down, both crying!

My twin brothers (ushers) walking my mom down the aisle

The boys walking out

The girls waiting for me, I can tell by my sisters face she is holding tears back!

The curtains closed for me!

The guys waiting

Curtains open! And I see my hubby crying...an amazing moment!
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Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN
Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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September 29th, 2009, 10:16 AM
♥Ashley♥'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Jason while I was walking down the aisle



Lighting the unity candle

Hand ceremony

HUSBAND AND WIFE!!!!!!

The aisle runner I made!


Wedding party

My brothers, me, Jason, my mom, and stepdad

My nephew Aden!!

Jason sister, neice, me, jason, his mom, and dad



The boys on the bus!



I finally have my wedding ring!

So much love...


Relax riesling! SOOO good!



Taking pics of the photographer taking pics!

Everyone calls this my "bridal magazine" pose!

Our wedding party, i love this pic

Jumping pic! This one didnt turn out, but the photographers ones did

I think this pic is sooo cute!


Everyone helping with the dress!


OMG this was soooo funny all the guys were so scared to touch my "girly parts" so they kept almost dropping me! The guy all the way to the left was scared to touch my boobies so he is like holding his hands in a cupping postition and jasons dad in the middle was scared to touch my butt!!


Our first dance

Getting down I seriously danced with this guy (Aaron my best friend Ashley's boyfriend) all night!

Dancing with my little brothers, we werent playing their "type" of music, so they requested this song and showed us how to dance to it! It was like some serious heavy metal!

Jason and I dancing with my little brothers, this was soo sweet

Everyone started playing with the props from the photobooth! (my sister and her fiance)

The guys in the photobooth! Taking advantage of all the props!

Aaron showing me a dance move

Another...i told you i danced with him alot! ---His dad actually just died in his sleep last month so he has had a rough time lately, we were trying to make it a good night for him too, he's a close friend. This past weekend he told us its the most fun he has had in a long time.

Jasons gift from Aaron! Jason is infamous for getting cold often, so they got him a snuggie! I dont know if youve all seen the infomercials on them but its actually a great invention, lol!
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Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN
Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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September 29th, 2009, 10:21 AM
♥Ashley♥'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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And here are a few of the preview pics my photographer posted! I cant wait to get the professional pics!!!






I'll share the photobooth pics and profesional pics once i get them!
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Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN
Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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September 29th, 2009, 10:36 AM
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Wow, Ashley! All I can say is WOW!!! You look stunning, your dress is stunning (love that train!), your day looked absolutely perfect, and you have one handsome hubby!

I am so happy for you that everything went smoothly and that you had an amazing day! It looks like everything was just perfect!
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September 29th, 2009, 10:39 AM
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It's so great to hear from you girl!!! I've been thinking about you and actually just posted in your journal on TTC #1.

Your wedding looked absolutely perfect!!!!!! It sounds like it was an amazing day! You looked so stunning and your dress is so beautiful!! I'm glad it was everything you'd dreamt of! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!
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September 29th, 2009, 10:55 AM
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Wow..absolutely amazing. You looked STUNNING!!!! So glad everything went so smoothly and you had a great time.
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September 29th, 2009, 11:15 AM
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Girl, I almost cried reading and scrolling through your story and the pics. Your wedding and reception was gorgeous and perfect!! I am extremely happy for you and Jason!!! I cant wait to see more pics!!! You looks amazing too!!!
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September 29th, 2009, 11:25 AM
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WOW!! You looked stunning and reading about your day made me all teary I'm so beyond happy for you
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September 29th, 2009, 11:26 AM
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Beautiful Ashley...here's to many more memories as a married couple! It's going to be an amazing ride!!!!
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September 29th, 2009, 11:36 AM
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Hey I'm popping over from the Wedding board . . .

Congrats!!! Your wedding looked amazing and you look stunning! I was totally tearing up reading about the day, it sounds like your wedding was incredible! Thanks for sharing your pics, can't wait to see the pro pics and hear about your honeymoon! Also sending you some for the NTNP! Again, gorgeous pics!
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September 29th, 2009, 11:43 AM
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WOW!!! Your wedding looked amazing, and you were such a gorgeous bride! I loved your dress and the stories and all the pics. Congrats girl! I hope your wedding high lasts a looong time
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September 29th, 2009, 11:47 AM
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Thank you so much it truly was the most amazing, beautiful, incredible day of my entire life. I feel like the luckiest woman in the world!

Thank you Michelle!!!!!! So nice to see you!
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Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
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Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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September 29th, 2009, 11:56 AM
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awesome pics! congrats to a fellow september bride!
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September 29th, 2009, 12:25 PM
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OMG Ashley! You looked amazing! Everything sounds like it went perfectly! I'm so happy for you!! How many more !'s can I use?!!!
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September 29th, 2009, 02:42 PM
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Everything was gorgeous Ashley! Have you begun the official name change process? How does it feel to be OFFICIAL??? I still LOVE hearing Michael say the word wife!
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September 29th, 2009, 02:45 PM
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Everything looked amazing!!!! I'm so glad it all went well!!
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September 29th, 2009, 02:57 PM
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Everything was just perfect!! You were STUNNING and i looooved your makeup! I didn't know that it was airbrush- so cool! I'm so glad that your day went well Your pics are awesome and so much fun!! Your little bros are cute Oh, and I love the "relax" photo because it's so appropriate!
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September 29th, 2009, 02:59 PM
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I think I teared up a little. Ashley, your wedding was soooo beautiful. I'm glad you had such a fantastic time. I love when the groom starts crying like that. Big married lady *Hugs*. We've missed you!
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September 29th, 2009, 04:23 PM
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Your pictures gave me goosbumps!! I wanna see the candy bar!!
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September 29th, 2009, 04:31 PM
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I've been wondering about you Ashley!!!

Everything was BEAUTIFUL!! You gave me chills reading all that! You looked absolutely gorgeous! Beautiful, beautiful bride and dress. And hubby looks like quite the stud! (Don't you love being able to say DH? ) I love the first pic of you two at the altar! I'm so glad it was everything you were dreaming of.

Judging from the preview pics, it looks like your photographer did a great job. Can't wait to see more!
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