I was lucky my hospital didn't give me grief for anything being delayed. But we got the Vitamin K shot since Jack had some bruising and it is recommended in those cases even by midwifes. He had the eye ointment too, and really it wasn't that big of a deal for us even though we had debated it. By the time I saw him the ointment was gone, and if you remember his newborn pics, there wasn't any irritation and he was extremely alert and bright eyed to everything

So try not to sweat it if it turns into an issue. I wish I hadn't.
Oh and they give newborns the Heb V vaccine b/c if a mom had Hep B she can pass it on to her child during birth, and the child will then get that disease unless the first dose of the vaccine is given quickly after birth. A lot of people our age got the vaccine as pre-teens, so if that is you, you most likely don't have Hep B (or you got a blood test that shows you are negative) so there is no reason to give it at birth. Really, it is a preventative measure they enact upon all women across the board as a safety precaution for the babies of women that didn't have prenatal care and have no idea if they are infected or not. That is how my pediatrician explained it, and so most places shouldn't give you a hard time if you know you are negative. And if a nurse does, you can always explain the above or just tell them the baby will be receiving their first dose at their 2 week appt rather then at birth. I know some nurses can be very pushy about this stuff. Good luck with the decisions.