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October 20th, 2009, 07:58 AM
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CD 29, 14 DPO. Just took an FRER 
This is the complete end of YEAR TWO. I am so sad today. The thing is, every time I ask Mike to called his urologist to get on Clomid again, "he's not in today". Well, I'll call him TOMORROW and make an appt. 3 weeks from now so he can request off. I'm not blaming him, but I went through a bunch of tests to "rule me out", I take my Synthroid every day, without fail, and I feel like he doesn't want to "Accept defeat".
He knows I'm angry right now. It's hard not to be. I'm not trying to be a bizotch but I'm just down. 
Last edited by JustBreathe; October 20th, 2009 at 08:01 AM.
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October 20th, 2009, 08:09 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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i cant imagine how hard it would be to get a man to go get those tests....i think making the appt for him is a good idea, at least then he just has to show up.
*huggles* i hope he goes and takes care of business so u can get down to business!
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October 20th, 2009, 08:20 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Hagerstown, MD
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Oh Michelle! I REALLY hope he goes and something gets figured out quickly! ((HUGS))
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October 20th, 2009, 09:07 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 8,090
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Oh hon, I am so sorry... You guys deserve a baby so much.. I hope Mike will come around soon! (((HUGS)))
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October 20th, 2009, 09:28 AM
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I asked him, on the advice of an IRL/JM friend, "Are you on the same page as I am? Do you REALLY want a baby? Because I really want a baby, and I would do ANYTHING!" He got so pissed off and offended. He was like No Michelle, I just have sex on command because I think it's fun. Even though I rarely do it, I CAN TELL YOU NO. But YES, I want a baby, so make the appt. for me, I'm always at work which is why I haven't, and then we'll go together! I'm sorry you feel like this! And then all of the annoyance left him and he gave me a hug and apologized for "making" me sad. He didn't do it... It's not really HIS FAULT... My head's a mess today!
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October 20th, 2009, 09:43 AM
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Ian, Morgan and Isabella!
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Hillsboro, Oregon
Posts: 6,244
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Im sorry hunny  At least he is on the same page! Hang in there hun 
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~Isabella Joy, 1~
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October 20th, 2009, 10:04 AM
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Co-host of the May 09PR
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Maryland
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What a downer day. You're such a sweethart, I wish so badly you could be a mommy.
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October 20th, 2009, 10:07 AM
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Gosh this brings back so many memories from when we were TTC. I know you & i have PMd about the male thing previously, you know you can PM me anytime to vent or moan or just to talk.
I'm so sorry this road has been such a b/itch for you Michelle Truly I feel for you. I remember the whole thing of doing it so infrequently you thought you'd never have a "proper" chance. It wont help you and may upset/anger you... my girl is the result of one BD in a cycle. I know you will get there, it's a rollercoaster ride. It's tough emotionally, just try and hang in there though. We're all here with you.
I hope Mike does go and see his doctor. ((((((((((huggles)))))))))))
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October 20th, 2009, 12:21 PM
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October 20th, 2009, 12:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: NJ
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I'm so sorry Michelle. I really hope you guys can get things figured out soon to get you that baby asap! I'm glad Mike is on the same page as you, that's good!
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October 20th, 2009, 01:34 PM
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I'm sorry Michelle. I know Dustin's MFI is totally different, but if Mike wants to chat with a guy that has been down that road, I'm sure Dustin wouldn't mind. In fact, it wasn't until just recently that he divulged to me how much he hated ttc. Maybe I am dense, but that shocked me! 
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October 20th, 2009, 02:15 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 3,018
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I'm sorry sweetie. I can't imagine how rough this entire journey has been for you. Hang in there, we love you!
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October 20th, 2009, 02:51 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Barbados
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I'm so sorry, Michelle! I'm glad you made the appointment. I hope you can get some answers.
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October 20th, 2009, 05:52 PM
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Platinum Superdupermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Long Island, New York
Posts: 9,125
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Michelle you me and Fifi were all in this boat where our men seem to be the issue and they all don't want their egos hurt. Its like to them infertility is horrible and demoralizing.
*hugs*
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October 20th, 2009, 06:17 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
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I'm so sorry. It just sucks, plain and simple. I hope things turn around and you are able to get preggo soon.
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October 20th, 2009, 07:43 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: New Zealand
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I'm so sorry honey. If I knew how easy it would be for me to fall pregnant, then I would very happily give you my BFP. I hope you get some answers soon.
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October 20th, 2009, 09:10 PM
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I am so sorry Michelle. 2 years is just too long- it's not fair I hope that Mike decides to take an active part in your TTC process.
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October 20th, 2009, 09:37 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: British Columbia
Posts: 3,685
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aww sweetie I know how hard infertility can be (we've been DTD unprotected except for maybe twice for over 3 years - and actively ttc at times too) I'm sorry you're having such a hard time...There's nothing I can say to make you feel better but still, I'm sorry for your pain.
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