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November 3rd, 2009, 06:24 PM
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We had our scan yesterday and it isn't good news. Baby is showing signs of a Chromosomal Abnormality and we have to have further tests to find out what is going on. I kind of just went into shock when I was told that so didn't ask to many questions, so am not even sure what that means. I'm trying to not think about it too much til we get more texts done. We have an appointment at the hospital next Thursday (we have to wait until we are a little further on, so I'll be a day off 13 weeks by then).

The person who took the scan rang my midwife straight away and she called me when I got home. We have a meeting with her tonight.

I really need your positive thoughts ladies. I haven't stopped crying since I heard this and am terrified.
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November 3rd, 2009, 06:42 PM
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I cannot even imagine how you are feeling. I am thinking of you and your family now and hoping for the best. It is still very early to tell for sure about those things. I am hoping the best for you.
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November 3rd, 2009, 07:01 PM
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Oh goodness, how scary. I'm wishing you the best and hoping your next appointment will bring you better news. I know it is going to be an awful wait. We are here for you if you need us.

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November 3rd, 2009, 07:08 PM
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((((HUGS)))) That is so scary, lots of positive thoughts coming your way! Keep us updated!
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November 3rd, 2009, 07:26 PM
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T&P heading your way!!!!
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November 3rd, 2009, 07:40 PM
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I'm keeping you in my thoughts until we hear more.

p.s. if you find yourself facing a CVS procedure or amniocentesis, I've been through it (CVS, but they are very similar) and I can let you know what to expect, as well as gladly lend my support. We have a much greater than average chance of a chromosomal abnormality with every pregnancy so this is something I will be going through again if/when we go for #2. I hope you can find some peace within this scariness.
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November 3rd, 2009, 07:51 PM
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I'm saying a prayer that everything goes well at your next appointment and the tests all turn up negative. I am so sorry that you got this news today
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November 3rd, 2009, 07:58 PM
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Saying a prayer for you. I hope everything goes well and that you can make it through till you have more tests come back.
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November 4th, 2009, 03:52 AM
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Praying for you and the baby, I'm so sorry you have to go through this right now ((HUGS)).
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November 4th, 2009, 04:59 AM
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((HUGS)) Keeping you guys in my thoughts!! I hope it turns out to be nothing!!
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November 4th, 2009, 05:40 AM
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I'm so sorry about the bad news. I'm hoping that the scan is wrong. (((HUGS)))
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November 4th, 2009, 06:15 AM
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I can only imagine how scared and worried you are. I opted out of those tests for that very same reason. I pray that maybe they measured wrong or read/wrote down the results wrong and that at your next appt you can get some relief in knowing that your baby is as healthy as a fitness instructor.
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November 4th, 2009, 06:18 AM
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I'm keeping you in my thoughts.
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November 4th, 2009, 06:27 AM
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***hugs***
i'm so sorry you got this news tash, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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November 4th, 2009, 06:37 AM
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November 4th, 2009, 06:58 AM
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I will keep you and your baby in my thoughts. I hope that it turns out to be nothing.
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November 4th, 2009, 07:37 AM
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HUGS - I hope the rest of the tests come out better.
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November 4th, 2009, 07:41 AM
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Oh no, I will definitely be thinking of you and hoping everything turns out okay. Good Luck with your next appointment, I hope it turns out to be absolutely nothing.
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November 4th, 2009, 07:53 AM
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I'll be thinking of you guys and hoping that everything comes out 100% fine at your next appointment!
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November 4th, 2009, 08:20 AM
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Said a little prayer for you just now.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I hope you get plenty of information and answers ASAP.
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