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November 18th, 2009, 03:36 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 4,882
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We have spent the last two days at my parents and my Mum and Auntie took us down to the hospital for the CVS Procedure yesterday.
Didn't go as straight forward as it should have as baby refused to co-operate and kept hiding from the ultra-sound. I ended up having a vaginal ultra-sound as well so the doctors could get a good look at the intestines on the outside of the body. By the time we were ready for the CVS Procedure, my uterus had moved down too low and they had to get me back up to go to the bathroom, walk around etc to try and make it move back up.
It didn't move back up so they went ahead anyway, but apparently that angle of the needle going in made it much more uncomfortable to me than what it should have. With my major needle phobia, it wasn't a fun experience.
So we'll be getting the first lot of results back on Monday, but we've been told not to get our hopes up. The measurements of the fluid/skin at the back of the neck now indicate we have a 70% chance of having a serious chromosome abnormality. I asked the doctor if there was no chromosome abnormality, what were the chances on operating on the baby once it was born to put the intestines back inside the body, but she doesn't feel that is an option for us due to how serious the issue was. She doesn't believe the baby will survive the pregnancy.
As devastating as this news is, it's also a huge relief to hear such terrible news. We will be waiting until Monday to get the results of the CVS, but the decision to terminate the pregnancy feels much easier now.
I'm not sure if I'll be able to be around here for a while. We will be TTC again in the future, but both feel the need to take a break to work through this experience.
Thank you so much for all your concern and words of support over the last few weeks. And also thanks to those women who have PM'ed me with their stories. Just knowing there are women out there who have made the same decision as me really, really helps.
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November 18th, 2009, 04:07 PM
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broken.
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Georgia
Posts: 5,830
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oh Tash....I am so sorry that you are getting this news. I hope you can find some peace and heal some over time. I will keep you guys in my thoughts and hope you can return to us in the future.
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2006-2012 6 years of NTNP, TTC, TTCMA, Losses, Surgeries, and Diagnoses.
RPL and Genetic Tests came back 100% normal
No known reason for our losses.
50+ cycles of heartbreak, loss, and the hated waiting.
RE Reconsult 4/26-Done
Cycle 52- letrozole, trigger, & DS IUI- ???
Follie Scan 5/21: 1x16mm, 1x7mm, 5x6mm or less
Follie Scan 5/23: 1x21 mm, 1x14mm, 5x7mm or less
Trigger 5/23 10,000 IU
IUI 5/24- count was excellent, perfect timing.
Beta 6/11-?
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November 18th, 2009, 04:29 PM
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Ian, Morgan and Isabella!
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Hillsboro, Oregon
Posts: 6,244
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oh hun   were all here for you if you need us, your in our T&P!!
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~Ian Michael, 6~
~Morgan Alexis, 5~
~Isabella Joy, 1~
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November 18th, 2009, 04:39 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 8,102
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sweetie i'm so sorry that this happened. *hugs* sending tons of t&p's ur way.
i am glad that others in the same situation have helped ease your mind, what a lovely community we have here.
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November 18th, 2009, 04:48 PM
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Oh Tasha....I am so sorry. I'm praying for a miracle. I wish that I could reach through the screen and give you a hug.
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November 18th, 2009, 04:55 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 6,553
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Goodness Tasha. I'm sorry, I'm at a complete loss for what to say. I'm still wishing for the best for you guys. We will all be thinking of you.
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November 18th, 2009, 05:42 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 2,931
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Big Hugs...you are definitely in my thoughts and prayers as you go thru this...all this baby stuff is just so unfair at times.
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"Children too are a gift from the LORD, the fruit of the womb, a reward." Psalm 127:3
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November 18th, 2009, 05:56 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Hagerstown, MD
Posts: 23,058
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Said a prayer for you right now. Big hugs hun
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November 18th, 2009, 06:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: New York
Posts: 7,577
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I am so, so sorry. I don't even want to imagine the amount of pain you must be in over this. I'm sending lots of love your way.
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November 18th, 2009, 06:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Montreal
Posts: 6,333
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I'm sorry. This is truly heartbreaking. I understand why you need to take some time off, but know that we're all here for you whenever you need to talk. Take care.
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November 18th, 2009, 07:07 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 8,090
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Oh Tasha, I am so sorry.. I understand that you will need some time away but remember we are all here for you! (((HUGS)))
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November 18th, 2009, 09:05 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Depends on the day....Earth :D
Posts: 28,954
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I can't even imagine what your going through.
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November 18th, 2009, 09:43 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,199
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*hugs*
I'm so very sorry. I'll be thinking of you and your family.
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November 19th, 2009, 03:29 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 1,787
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 Sending many healing thoughts to you and your family. May you have the continued strength to make it through. We are all here for you when you need us.
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November 19th, 2009, 04:53 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Earth
Posts: 6,570
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I am so sorry. You and your family are in my t&p's! ((BIG HUGS))
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November 19th, 2009, 05:00 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Barbados
Posts: 18,988
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I'm reading this update with tears in my eyes and I'm truly sorry about all this. I wish for you a lot of comfort and peace over the coming weeks and months. (((HUGS)))
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Thank you Helen for my beautiful siggy!
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November 19th, 2009, 06:08 AM
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Lilyan's Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Georgia
Posts: 12,736
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November 19th, 2009, 07:54 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: St. Louis, MO
Posts: 14,102
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mars
I'm reading this update with tears in my eyes and I'm truly sorry about all this. I wish for you a lot of comfort and peace over the coming weeks and months. (((HUGS)))
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 I have tears in my eyes as im reading this. I am so so sorry for what you are going through, I cannot even imagine what your going through right now...this is so horribly sad.
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage) Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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November 19th, 2009, 09:40 AM
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I'm so sorry Tasha.
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November 19th, 2009, 10:29 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,835
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I'm so very sorry, Tasha I'm keeping you and your family in my T&P.
Last edited by ..Penelope..; November 19th, 2009 at 10:43 AM.
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