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January 16th, 2010, 08:40 AM
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I posted on my FB that I can't believe I'm officially a quarter of the way done with this pregnancy. My sister (yes, the one that can't take care of her own son!) posted a reply saying "Just wait until you're halfway or you're 7 months and thinking get this thing outta me!" I couldn't help getting mad. Seriously?! I've done this before! I remember it all too well! It is driving me nuts that she posts stuff like this on MY page! It's not like she invented pregnancy and child birth! And yesterday she had the nerve to post on my FB "Amen for C-sections". Excuse me?! You know I had Gemma vaginally and you know I plan to try to go naturally for this one! WHY would you post that? It's like she's trying to say she's better than me or knows more than me. I've never wanted to strangle anyone SO much! I can take well intentioned advice. I can take people posting about their personal experience. I can NOT take her posting how she thinks MY pregnancy and birth should go! I couldn't help but respond that I'm not mentally slow and I don't have alzheimers. There is no reason she needs to try to direct my pregnancy! I know it's jealousy talking but seriously get the &^%$ over it!
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PR's: 5k-25:05 (old PR 25:10), 5M-45:03 (old PR - 47:22), 10k - 52:00 (approximate - training), HM-2:25:58 (ran a 2:17:36 during marathon), Full- 4:49:25 (old PR -5:49:40), 50k-7:05:56, 50M-13:31:14, 100k- 18:59:31 (old PR 20:56)
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January 16th, 2010, 08:44 AM
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I have a friend who is just like that. Every time I make a comment about my pregnancy, she has some 2 cents to add. She has 2 kids and birthed her last one at home in a tub. She basically has told me I'm going to be forced into a c-section at a hospital....after I explained we aren't having a HB with this baby because DH isn't okay with it.

Nolan is breach and has no desire to turn, and all she keeps telling me is that he can turn even when I'm in labor and not to worry about it.....I seriously want to tell her to shut the **** up.
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January 16th, 2010, 08:44 AM
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Oh and on one of my posts about running she posted "Stop running. The bean don't like it. Sit on the couch and eat." Yea, that's GREAT advice!

Geez Heather, your only 33 weeks. It's not like your in any danger from him being breech yet! People need to back the heck up outta our grillz! I doubt I'd be the first pregnant woman in jail for smacking some dumb-azz!
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Running for my health and sanity!
PR's: 5k-25:05 (old PR 25:10), 5M-45:03 (old PR - 47:22), 10k - 52:00 (approximate - training), HM-2:25:58 (ran a 2:17:36 during marathon), Full- 4:49:25 (old PR -5:49:40), 50k-7:05:56, 50M-13:31:14, 100k- 18:59:31 (old PR 20:56)
(All of these PR's are going down this season!)

My Pregnancy Chart: http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1c6297
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January 16th, 2010, 09:36 AM
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That is super annoying
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January 16th, 2010, 09:55 AM
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I do that to my sister just to piss her off I did that ONCE to Heather ^^ and Im like aww ok now I feel bad
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January 16th, 2010, 09:57 AM
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yeah that'll annoy me too.

Most people just reply "Congrats" or "You're almost there" or at least "I cant wait until you're 7 months"
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January 16th, 2010, 10:19 AM
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some people are just annoying!
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January 16th, 2010, 10:24 AM
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I hated when my friends who have never experienced child birth tried to give me tips.
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January 16th, 2010, 10:28 AM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one! I was starting to wonder if I was too harsh and maybe the preggo hormones were taking over! But she responded to my tongue lashing with, "Yeah but it's been awhile since you were pregnant and I just want this one to be smaller and on time." Why does it matter?! I can't make the baby come when I want it! I would love to have this baby on 8/9/10 (I just think it would be an awesome birthday!) or even Friday the 13th just because it would be funny! But I have NO control over it! Same with size! Gemma was 8lbs 10 oz and I have a feeling this baby will be bigger. But it didn't matter did it?! Gemma popped out healthy and normal and I was fine! GRRRR!! Apparently I need to remind her that pregnancy hormones do not make me friendlier to stupidity!
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Running for my health and sanity!
PR's: 5k-25:05 (old PR 25:10), 5M-45:03 (old PR - 47:22), 10k - 52:00 (approximate - training), HM-2:25:58 (ran a 2:17:36 during marathon), Full- 4:49:25 (old PR -5:49:40), 50k-7:05:56, 50M-13:31:14, 100k- 18:59:31 (old PR 20:56)
(All of these PR's are going down this season!)

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January 16th, 2010, 11:38 AM
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How is 8lbs considered big? I had a 9lbs 13 oz kid, anything under that seems small
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January 16th, 2010, 02:05 PM
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Ughhh how annoying! My one sister always talks about how she's the smarter one because she only had one child and anyone else who has more is crazy... she's 38 years old
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January 16th, 2010, 02:12 PM
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How is 8lbs considered big? I had a 9lbs 13 oz kid, anything under that seems small
Wow! Did you have GD? I can't imagine! Gemma was closer to 9lbs than 8 though. But I don't think I want to experience anything over 9! I just have a weird feeling this one will be 8 lbs 14 oz. Maybe because the EDD is 8/14? I don't know...
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Running for my health and sanity!
PR's: 5k-25:05 (old PR 25:10), 5M-45:03 (old PR - 47:22), 10k - 52:00 (approximate - training), HM-2:25:58 (ran a 2:17:36 during marathon), Full- 4:49:25 (old PR -5:49:40), 50k-7:05:56, 50M-13:31:14, 100k- 18:59:31 (old PR 20:56)
(All of these PR's are going down this season!)

My Pregnancy Chart: http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1c6297
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January 17th, 2010, 09:41 AM
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ur sis is being obnoxious eh...sit on the couch and eat?? wow.

i am now wondering how i will take all the unsolicited advice...hmm
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