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  #1  
February 18th, 2010, 01:51 PM
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Can you have orgasms from sex alone or do you require....other stimulation?



This QOTD is sponsored by my friend who just told me on lunch that she can NEVER orgasm from sex alone! I've heard this before, so im wondering how many girls are the same way!?!?

ETA: Of course, dont answer if you dont feel comfortable!
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February 18th, 2010, 01:54 PM
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I usually have the best luck on my own if I have shaved recently. I would say 75% of the time I need assistance, but DH is so wonderful, he makes sure I always have one each time...unless I just insist on not (if I wasnt in the mood to begin with ).
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February 18th, 2010, 02:14 PM
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I need other stymulation aswell
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February 18th, 2010, 02:21 PM
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Yes i normally can but since being pregnant it feels different and i've needed other "help"

From what i've heard, most women do not have orgasms during sex. I can't remember the % but i feel lucky!
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February 18th, 2010, 02:30 PM
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I definitely need other stimulation... My DH is great though and always makes sure I am taken care of
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February 18th, 2010, 02:34 PM
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I can just by sex alone...not that I dont love to have other things going on!
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Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN
Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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February 18th, 2010, 02:42 PM
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I can only orgasm 1 way. And unfortunatley that's just me. Dh has never been able to get me there. I usually just help myself afterwards. But don't get me wrong, he always helps lol!
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February 18th, 2010, 03:11 PM
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I ONLY O during sex. Any other stimulation just doesn't work. Weird huh?
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February 18th, 2010, 03:48 PM
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If by "just sex" you mean vaginal penetration alone - no, I've never been able to orgasm that way. I definitely need other stimulation but we combine it all together during sex so we're coming together.

Though I do have to say there are two ex-boyfriends of mine out there that think I can O that way and I'm sure would be shocked to hear otherwise.
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February 18th, 2010, 04:01 PM
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I can ONLY have clitoral orgasms. I've never been able to orgasm from vaginal sex. It's too bad for me. huh?

The sader thing is with my new lovely condition I'm losing sensation in my clitoras. It's like it's dulled down. I'm so sad about it. I guess it's part of dealing with this lovely LS.
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February 18th, 2010, 04:37 PM
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I can have them but its rare.
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February 18th, 2010, 05:00 PM
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this question made me blush!!! lol
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February 18th, 2010, 05:38 PM
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I can, but only certain positions work for that.
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February 18th, 2010, 05:40 PM
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February 18th, 2010, 08:18 PM
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I'm mainly an orgasm by clitoral stimulation kind of person. Very rarely can I O from penetration alone. It has happened though.
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February 18th, 2010, 09:17 PM
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Um.. I'm totally blushing!
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February 18th, 2010, 09:39 PM
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Sometimes I need "other stimulation" but I can do it either way!! I have the best luck in the "other stimulation"department by myself!!! I guess I should feel lucky I can have them both ways!! Although only certain positions work!!
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February 18th, 2010, 10:07 PM
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I'm mainly an orgasm by clitoral stimulation kind of person. Very rarely can I O from penetration alone. It has happened though.
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February 18th, 2010, 10:28 PM
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I definitely need other stimulation... My DH is great though and always makes sure I am taken care of
^ What she said
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February 19th, 2010, 12:04 AM
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not often, but I think we've recently found a position that works...
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