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March 9th, 2010, 01:54 PM
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So someone, not sure who, printed out things from the private forums that I wrote about R's ex, and him, and the drama. And she sent it ALL to his ex! She was showing EVERYONE what I said. Anything I said was private, meant to be shared with ONLY close friends. I feel so incredibly betrayed and upset by it. I really want to remove everyone that I do not know personally right now, remove them from facebook, everything. That was such a hard time for me, and I needed support and advice, and now I am getting stabbed in the back for it. I feel physically sick. I always thought I could tell everyone here things, but then felt weary after everything with Breanna, and now I feel completely unsafe. I can't figure out who it is, but it was somehow that had access to my online blog too, and also showed her everything from there. I only had 7 people added, and I narrowed it down to 2 that could have done it. The journal bothers me the MOST, because that was VERY personal, only 7 people had access. I deleted the journal. Years of things, gone, but I had to. This sucks.
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March 9th, 2010, 01:58 PM
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OMG are you kidding me Alison!! This literally brings tears to my eyes! I cant believe this has happened again! And I hope you are not saying that it was what was posted in OUR private forum...because then I may have to re-think being here anymore...I mean i never really post incredibly private things but if this crap is starting to hit closer to MY home (WTTC grads) im gonna be extremely, extremely P.I.S.S.E.D off!

I cannot believe this!

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March 9th, 2010, 02:03 PM
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I dont understand how people can do things like this to others
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March 9th, 2010, 02:08 PM
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Are you kidding me???? I can't even get into our private forum on firefox for some reason, it only works on IE, and even THAT doesn't work for me. All I know is I'm never posting anything private ever again. I'm so sorry... this is awful!!
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March 9th, 2010, 02:09 PM
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What! Isn't this the same kinda thing that happened to Bre? Why would someone do this? Im sorry Ali..Is there some way you can find out who did it? Ask Bre how she did it, I know she did a lot of research!! This is crazy, this is supposed to be a "safe" place why are there stupid people doing this?
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March 9th, 2010, 02:09 PM
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Huh? This is surprising to me. Was this a blog type journal you had that only a few had access to? How did they know the name and address to send the things they printed off to? How upsetting.
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March 9th, 2010, 02:16 PM
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All they would have had to do is be added to my facebook, they can figure out who R is, and then she had pictures of her tagged in his album, as well, and had written on his facebook wall. So it was really easy. I think I might have to leave here, as I am 100% sure she is reading this.
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March 9th, 2010, 02:21 PM
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I don't understand why people are doing this?? OMG. I can't believe this has happened twice. And I'm sorry but GET A LIFE, who has the time to do all that facebook stalking, journal stalking, and posts. Honestly. That is just horrible.

I'm so sorry this happened to you
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March 9th, 2010, 02:27 PM
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what the heck? OUR private forum? Who is it, give us names of who had access to your journal and who you think it is. This is unbelievable! I am sorry someone did this.

seriously, please tell me who these people are
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March 9th, 2010, 02:30 PM
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I am SO sorry, Alison I can't believe that someone did that to you!
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March 9th, 2010, 02:30 PM
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I just don't understand it! Who would even know her well enough to tattle on you?! Is it possible someone snuck in on your computer? This is just crazy! I'm soooo sorry Allison.
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March 9th, 2010, 02:36 PM
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I want to know who you narrowed it down to too. I'm sorry that someone you trusted on JM did this to you.
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March 9th, 2010, 02:38 PM
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Thats so terrible I can't believe it...
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March 9th, 2010, 02:39 PM
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Ditto ^^^
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March 9th, 2010, 02:40 PM
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WOW! People really have gone down low. This is very sad.
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March 9th, 2010, 02:42 PM
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What in the HELL?! I swear, the lengths people will go to in order to be vindictive are just staggering to me. I'm with Michelle, if you figure out who did it you should call that backstabbing B out and see how THEY like it.
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March 9th, 2010, 02:43 PM
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I wonder if they sent everything snail mail because it's easier to figure out who did it if it's done by email? It's harder to trace by snail mail? I'm not sure but guessing. Maybe they got the idea to do it after what was done to Bre?
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March 9th, 2010, 02:43 PM
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I want to know the suspects! Surely whoever did this isn't someone who has been here a long time. I sure hope not
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March 9th, 2010, 02:47 PM
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I totally agree with the other ladies. I want to know who you have narrowed it down to and let us help you or something! I think we should alll be in the know considering it could happen to us!
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March 9th, 2010, 03:03 PM
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Who the hell would do that?! Do you have no life? Whats going on here.. I honestly dont post anything personal here anymore, generally not even the private forums..
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