Krista - From what i've seen it can verge on bullying but my youngest neice is acting towards Mia in the same way her older sister acted towards her when she was younger. (My elder neice cant do nothing wrong and is now very spoilt and arrogant) I just get the feeling if i said anything to my younger neice she would go crying to her mum, but i suppose if that i happend i could always tell her if she acutally watched her kid I wouldnt have to!
But its gotten to the point where i can see Mia has had enough and shes gonna try getting them back soon. I know my baby and shes like me - Will only take so much then she will snap

I mean, what parent lets there kids run up and down on a coffee table fgs?
As for my mum and stuff - I totaly agree - the ocasinal treat I dont mind, Im not saying I dont ever want them to give Mia sweets or what ever - Just not when i've said no. I usualy only say no because its near a meal time or what i consider too late to eat before her bed time.
There is a reason I want to limit her sweets intake - I dont want her to end up tubby like me. Im doing it because its for her health. I want to instill GOOD eating habits but cant do that when i am being underminded.