[sara~b]

Originally Posted by *ETanny*

Cant you just talk to your mom and tell her even though you said it was ok before your acutally feeling really hurt that she cant come? Maybe if she seems how much it means to you she may reconsider?

Nope! I posted on my FB that I'm ticked that no one is coming and my mom commented on my post with this: "Sorry darlin... need 2 weeks notice to take off a day of work and you picked a day and time that I have class. Grandma offered to come if you want her to be there."

I am NOT making my grandma drive 2+ hours here watch us get married, maybe have lunch with us and then drive 2+ hours home. She's broke, she's not as healthy as she once was and we will see her for Easter. Now my mom works like 30 minutes away. I don't see why her boss would be against her leaving a half hour early, coming to see us get married and then getting back to work a half hour late! Or at the least she could call off! And I'm sure her professor would be understanding! I guess I better not have this baby on a weekday or no one will come visit until the following weekend!

I'm over it. I had nightmares all night. That something went wrong and we missed the wedding, that Shane's ex-wife showed back up and he wanted her instead of me, etc. I was almost in tears on the way to work and then suddenly the weather got nice, the sun came out and I jumped headfirst into my work. I felt better really quickly and then I just decided that my family (and his) better not ask me/us for anything ever again because I'm done with all of them (except for my gram because she rocks! )

And on the good side, I got a girl who works at the local salon to agree to come in at 8AM the morning of my wedding so I can get my hair done! Now all I have to do is try out Ashley's make up suggestion for your opinions and then settle on my make up! Then I need to set a schedule for myself for that morning and stick to it!

[Trannyfromtheuk]

Sorry you had nightmares, but if its any consolation i had bad dreams about my wedding too....I think thats just normal pre-wedding nerves

One of them I had a dream that the dress makers lost my dress and we had to quickily make another one out of this ghastly materal... it was the same pattern my friend has on her stairs in her parents house and i looked a total wally!
I acutally woke up crying saying i didnt want to get married in a carpet. Gary thought i had lost the plot (i hope that makes you feel a lil better )