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  #1  
March 23rd, 2010, 10:03 PM
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WTTC Grads is and always has been my home, but I'm really missing my PR lately. I haven't posted there in like 3 months. For a while I felt no desire to post there because of everything that happened. It wasn't the same place to me. I knew that I would still talk to my close friends via FB or this board, and I have, but it's not the same. Part of me not posting was also resentment and wanting to stick to my guns.

Now that I'm a SAHM I would really love to talk about Reid and see what other 18 month olds are up to. I have questions that revolve around this age and sometimes I just want to talk about certain things that wouldn't really fit in here on WTTC Grads.

I'm bummed out that I don't have that PR anymore. It meant so much to me. I co-hosted for nearly 2 years and I know it will never be the "same", but I miss it none the less.
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March 23rd, 2010, 11:42 PM
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I'm so sorry Bre. It does make sense that you don't want to post there any more, but I also understand why you miss it. You went through your pregnancy and the first year of Reid's life with those people.

Is there still people there who you don't feel comfortable posting with? You could invite some of your close friends over to this board!
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March 24th, 2010, 12:13 AM
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I'm sorry I know it must be tough. I stopped posting in Seamus' playroom cause we dont' fit in there.


Some of us here have older kids we can still talk
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March 24th, 2010, 12:21 AM
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Why don't you go back? I'm sure they will greet you with open arms. I can understand why it might never be the same, but maybe it can become a positive experience for you once again.
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March 24th, 2010, 12:28 AM
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I totally understand every word of your post. That's how I feel about this board too. It completely sucks. It definitely won't be the same, but if you feel like going back... go. The majority of the people undoubtedly miss you.
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March 24th, 2010, 12:38 AM
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Come back I should barely be talking because I haven't been that active there either since that all happened but just recently I'm starting to.
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March 24th, 2010, 03:55 AM
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Well I've been through that 18 month stage and am more than willing to answer questions... BUT! I totally understand what you're talking about. Maybe give it a shot?
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March 24th, 2010, 05:12 AM
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I know it has to be difficult. Didn't the person who did that to you get banned? If that is the case, maybe you could just go back but be on your guard, you know? The rest of the PR probably had nothing to do with it all.
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March 24th, 2010, 05:14 AM
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I understand your feelings. I think you should still post your questions here. You may still be able to get good advice and us with younger children can learn a few things too.

You could still stalk your PR.
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March 24th, 2010, 06:21 AM
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(((HUGS))) I wish all of that crap hadn't happened and you never would have felt the need to leave.... Maybe just try going back slowly and posting every once in awhile...
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March 24th, 2010, 07:00 AM
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I say that if you want to go back. then go back. Like everyone else said, I'm pretty sure they'll greet you with open arms and the person who caused you trouble in the first place isnt there anymore. Start back up gradually by reintroducing yourself, posting to topics and then when you get comfortable enough, post your own topics and maybe even go back into the private area again.
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March 24th, 2010, 07:11 AM
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I know I would love to see you posting there again. It's just not the same without you and Reid. I've missed seeing you posting in our PR. Maybe you can give it a try? Just start posting a little and see how you feel about it?

How are you liking being a SAHM? Do you love it? Or miss working a little? I know your have your photography to keep you busy too.
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March 24th, 2010, 08:36 AM
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Landen is 18 months and so is Oliver and then tons of btdt moms here!! I recently joined the toddler board because I wanted to hear about little fellas around Landen's age too. Maybe you could try it out too!
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March 24th, 2010, 08:57 AM
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That's all very understandable for sure.

Maybe do as others have suggested and start back slowly? Is that an option?

I'd love to see you posting more here. Curtis used to be 18 months! And Dustin is only 4 months behind hehe We might still be able to help you or connect on some level, although I do completely understand. I know there are things that I would LOVE to talk about regarding Curtis but I have no where to go really.
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March 24th, 2010, 09:02 AM
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I noticed you are never on the photography board too. I say just go back and don't respond to peoples posts you don't like, or whatever. That's what people here do to me! You should go back, and of course, post stuff here. IT is cool to see what I have to look forward too
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March 24th, 2010, 09:43 AM
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understandable bre......i'm sure they would take you back, and i agree that they are prob missing u!
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March 24th, 2010, 09:49 AM
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I'm sorry, Bre. I really love my PR too. It's hard to "grow" with these women, be a co-host and then not feel comfortable sharing your business.
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March 24th, 2010, 10:08 AM
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Im sorry Bre I say go back if you miss the girls that are still there. Just be guarded...kwim? If the girl is gone who did it, then the others are probably wishing and hoping you would come back anyway!
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March 25th, 2010, 05:50 AM
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I ditto Melissa & Resi

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March 25th, 2010, 07:38 AM
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Hugs Bre. If you want to go back, I say go for it. I know they miss you tons!
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