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May 1st, 2010, 06:38 PM
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Sometimes I just want to slap DH in the head!!!! I get that this cycle has been tough on him.....we can't have sex per DR, so he is left to take care of it himself, only when I say it is ok(can't do it 2-5 days before IUI and that date kept changing) He can't drink, smoke and has to keep his coffee intake low. Granted he is only a social smoker so it's not a huge deal for hm to stop that. He also only has some beers on the weekend, but was really looking forward to drinking tonight with his friends. He is now mad at me because I won't let him. I don't want drunk lazy sperm for our IUI. He is now at the computer pouting. I told him we both have to make sacrifices, this cycle. I have had my blood taken 12 times, I have had 10 ultrasounds, I have missed part of work 4 days. I give myslef a needle everyday, and put more medication in body than anyone ever should. I just don't get why he thinks one weekend without being with his frineds is going to kill him. I love hanging out with his friends, we always have SO much fun and they are just the sweetest people, but they just drink and smoke cigarettes the whole time...not the best influences even if we just went to hang out...LOL

Anyways, rant over...LOL I will get over this, as will DH, but I am just mad right now.
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May 1st, 2010, 08:36 PM
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Yeah hubby told me tonight that he cant wait till I can drink with him again this summer...uh hello ill be bf'ing!!! stupid men can shove it!!!
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May 1st, 2010, 08:44 PM
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Wow, I'm sorry Morgs...it sounds to me like you're making most of the sacrifices!!! PLUS in the end, you'll still have to sacrifice your body and v-jay!!!! (Granted, a well worth it sacrifice, but a sacrifice no less!) I say this to him "Get over it so your wife can have a baby!"
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May 2nd, 2010, 02:01 AM
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Men can be such tools sometimes
I sware, they couldnt last an hour in our shoes sometimes
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May 2nd, 2010, 03:04 AM
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What a pain! I'd be mad too! I'm sorry
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May 2nd, 2010, 03:32 AM
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I can totally understand why you're mad. And you're right, you both have to make sacrifices and his are really small in comparison to the ones you're making. He'll just have to get over it.
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May 2nd, 2010, 05:52 AM
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May 2nd, 2010, 06:03 AM
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I totally know how you feel on this one Morgan! I sort of had the same issue with Jason last month!
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May 2nd, 2010, 06:04 AM
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Ugh!! Men!!!
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May 2nd, 2010, 08:22 AM
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I had to giggle at "drunk lazy sperm", hehe. I can smack him around a little if you want!
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May 2nd, 2010, 05:41 PM
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I'd totally be mad too! You have been through a lot this cycle, he needs to understand that.
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May 2nd, 2010, 05:57 PM
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He is in a much better mood about it now. He was better a couple hours after I posted this..LOL

He did tell me though, after he "sperms in a cup" he is buying a pack of cigarettes and drinking a pot of coffee...LOL
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