WTTC Graduates
For WTTC Members who are now TTC or pregnant.
Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.
We pride ourselves on having the friendliest
and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment
and register
for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers.
If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.
Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!
|
|
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Indianapolis, IN
Posts: 14,577
|
|
|
So.. Sam, Shannon, and Morgan are newly ttc or not avoiding, right? Who else is ttc or has plans to try before the end of the year?
What is the ideal spacing to you?
|
|
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 8,090
|
|
|
Resi have ya'll made any TTC plans yet? Still undecided on #2?
__________________
Aimee wife to Jeremiah mommy to Adeline Louise
|
|
|
 |
<-- Just do it.
|
|
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: The Tar Heel State
Posts: 6,308
|
|
Before I had kids I thought I would space them five years apart because that's how my sisters and I are spaced. Now that I have kids, I like the two year spacing because of how emotionally close Lily and Violet are. They play together so well and are each others' best friend, I think it's adorable. 
|
|
|
 |
Seamus and Kieran's Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: North Idaho
Posts: 29,910
|
|
|
I know we wont be TTC before the end of the year, possibly never again. But I like the age gap between my kids, Seamus was 2yrs 9mo old when Kieran was born. I got a good amount of 1:1 time with Seamus and he was older so he could help more and understands more when I tell him to be careful and such. And they still play together just as well as kids that are only 1-2yrs apart.
|
|
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,199
|
|
2yrs is the best  hahaha. No, but I really do love the spacing of the boys. They get along so well!
|
|
|
 |
Platinum Superdupermommy
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Long Island, New York
Posts: 9,125
|
|
|
I wanna space J.J and the next one about 18-24 months apart. Then we are gonna wait a good 3-4 years for the 3rd and 4th (gonna aim for twins then!)
__________________
Samantha (28), DH: Joe (32)
DS: Johnathan ("J.J") (2.5)
************************
Severe Male Factor Infertility
IVF#1 October 2008 - BFP (+6 frozen)
DS born: : July 22, 2009
FET#1: January 2012 (non-medicated, 1-AB blast) - BFN
FET #2: February 2012 (fully medicated)
|
|
|
|
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,199
|
|
|
^ will you do the 3 and 4th the same 18 - 24 months apart? That sounds like good spacing!
I'm freaking over having 3 so young haha.
|
|
|
|
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Indianapolis, IN
Posts: 14,577
|
|
|
I'm back and forth between a spring or fall baby. I want a spring baby because it would make them about 2.5 years apart. But a fall baby would be ideal because we could use the same clothes if it was another boy. Plus maternity clothes would be for the same season. If we went for a fall baby there would be a 3 year age gap. I'm thinking it might be a bit better to have them a tiny bit closer but maybe it doesn't really matter. I want them to be able to play together and we could do family activites together with out one being to old or to young.
soo.. if we are going to do it I would like to get pregnant before the end of the year or Jan 2011 for a October baby! We are ntnp at this time.
|
|
|
|
Platinum Superdupermommy
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Long Island, New York
Posts: 9,125
|
|
|
3 & 4 will HOPEFULLY be twins. If not, we will probably stop at 3.
__________________
Samantha (28), DH: Joe (32)
DS: Johnathan ("J.J") (2.5)
************************
Severe Male Factor Infertility
IVF#1 October 2008 - BFP (+6 frozen)
DS born: : July 22, 2009
FET#1: January 2012 (non-medicated, 1-AB blast) - BFN
FET #2: February 2012 (fully medicated)
|
|
|
|
Mega Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Southern Germany
Posts: 4,229
|
|
|
I was ntnp, but since I have recently applied for a job I have started bcp's and have decided to wait for awhile longer. We will probably go back to ntnp in late summer or autumn for a spring or summer baby..
Our ideal spacing (of course we have no experience, so its just guessing) will be 18-24 months for #2. IF... a big IF, we go for #3 it wouldn't be for several more years until I get a lot of my student loans paid down.
|
|
|
 |
Mega Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 4,116
|
|
|
No TTC or even NTNP anytime soon for us! Call me selfish but I want to get back in shape and enjoy wearing normal clothes and looking decent for a while before being pregnant again. Plus we are moving in July, then moving when we buy a house next July...so I don't want to do that pregnant or with a newborn. I'm thinking we'll TTC when she is around 2-2.5yrs so they will be around 3 yrs apart.
__________________
|
|
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
|
|
|
Well as you said we are TTC now, we'd like a 2 year spacing.
|
|
|
 |
Co-host of the May 09PR
|
|
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Maryland
Posts: 8,720
|
|
I haven't started yet!  I was Oing when DH left and we still used a condom. We're going to next cycle if DH is home at that time. Okay, wait, so I guess we are TTC haha. But there will be no super trying like last time. We'll DTD only if we want to and I won't be tracking anything. Though I stopped charting a few months ago (being lazy) and just keeping an eye on CF.
__________________
|
|
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: ID
Posts: 12,020
|
|
|
We will not be TTC again for a couple more years, at least that's what i'm thinking at this point.
__________________
Krista
|
|
|
 |
Mamma to Mia
|
|
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Grimsby, England
Posts: 19,304
|
|
We're TTC 
We did ideally want about 18-24 month gap, but that has not happend. Its gonna be around 3.5-4yr gap now.
__________________
Molly Ann born Feb 13th 2012 weighing 6lb1oz
|
|
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Barbados
Posts: 18,988
|
|
|
No plans for me. Good luck to everyone who's trying.
__________________
Thank you Helen for my beautiful siggy!
|
|
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Montreal
Posts: 6,333
|
|
We're TTC!  There won't be any age gap as we will most likely only have one, if any.
I'm excited you're TTC Resi! You make cute babies!
__________________
PLEASE DO NOT MENTION PREGNANCY ON FACEBOOK!
|
|
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Rochester NY
Posts: 12,280
|
|
|
how exciting! I was just joining back when most of you were pregnant
|
|
|
 |
Mega Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: CA
Posts: 3,965
|
|
|
we probably won't even try until Lyla is at least 2. I'm enjoying her so much!
|
|
|
|
Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2010
Posts: 892
|
|
We are going to start TTC #2 this Fall That would put the kids nearly 3 years apart which I think is perfect for us (assuming it takes a few months which I expect it will)
|
| Topic Tools |
Search this Topic |
|
|
|
| Display Modes |
 Linear Mode
|
Posting Rules
|
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off
|
|
|
All times are GMT -7. The time now is 01:51 PM.
|
JustMommies Message Boards
» Trying to Conceive and Family Planning
» Waiting to Try to Conceive
» WTTC Graduates
»
TTC Plans
